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dom-n-nic
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New mom . with a couple of questions

Hi everyone
new mom here
had my baby girl may 27th, sharing a bday with sweets13 babygirl also who happens to be a good friend :)

couple of questions i have if your ladies can help.

1-c section moms do you feel numb around the area of your stitches

2- how long do you bleed for after birth

3-the past few days dd has been grunting ALOT . anyone had this?

4-newborns now. what do you have them wearing? full sleepers or onesies or both?

5-weight loss-
when did you start exercising?
how much weight came off in what period of time ?
i gained 70lbs and lost 30 so far since birth(but i had pre eclampsia so that was all water weight) have another 40 but would like 50

6-birth announcements- when did you send them out?

sorry for all the questions but i am new at this Chat Icon

T.I.A

Message edited 6/7/2009 9:23:17 AM.

Posted 6/7/09 9:18 AM
 
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Re: New mom . with a couple of questions

Posted by dom-n-nic

Hi everyone
new mom here
had my baby girl may 27th, sharing a bday with sweets13 babygirl also who happens to be a good friend :)

couple of questions i have if your ladies can help.

1-c section moms do you feel numb around the area of your stitches

2- how long do you bleed for after birth

3-the past few days dd has been grunting ALOT . anyone had this?

4-newborns now. what do you have them wearing? full sleepers or onesies or both?

sorry for all the questions but i am new at this Chat Icon

T.I.A


1. n/a
2. About 2 weeks, it got less as time went by - not as bad as in the hospital
3. Not really a grunter, my DS made a wheezing/whistling noice when he breathed - doc said it was b/c air tubes were so small. I wouldn't be too concerned but you might want to bring it up to doc at next visit (maybe record it on cell phone in case dd doesn't do it for doc
4. i guess it depends on how warm your house is, if they are inside/outside. I would prob keep in onsie and cotton pants. also, depends if dd is wrapped ina blanket. doc said rule of thumb is one layer more then you have on. my ds is 16 mos and HATES blankets so I have to dress him a little warmer at night.
5 - I'll let you know
6- about 2-3 months - i think you have 6 months - that's what i read on here.

Message edited 6/7/2009 9:32:35 AM.

Posted 6/7/09 9:23 AM
 

Kris516
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Re: New mom . with a couple of questions

Posted by dom-n-nic

Hi everyone
new mom here
had my baby girl may 27th, sharing a bday with sweets13 babygirl also who happens to be a good friend :)

couple of questions i have if your ladies can help.

1-c section moms do you feel numb around the area of your stitches

2- how long do you bleed for after birth

3-the past few days dd has been grunting ALOT . anyone had this?

4-newborns now. what do you have them wearing? full sleepers or onesies or both?

5-weight loss-
when did you start exercising?
how much weight came off in what period of time ?
i gained 70lbs and lost 30 so far since birth(but i had pre eclampsia so that was all water weight) have another 40 but would like 50

sorry for all the questions but i am new at this Chat Icon

T.I.A



1. yes, expect incision to feel numb for a bit.

2. everyone is different, but I bled for 6 weeks I think.

3. grunting is normal

4. my guys is almost 5mos, so i put him in s/s footless PJs on warmer nights, and then his sleep sack.

5. My weight came off very quickly - in about 2-4 weeks it was off - mainly b.c I was so swollen and was on a GD diet.

GL!

Posted 6/7/09 9:25 AM
 

MrsFlatbread
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Re: New mom . with a couple of questions

Posted by dom-n-nic

Hi everyone
new mom here
had my baby girl may 27th, sharing a bday with sweets13 babygirl also who happens to be a good friend :)

couple of questions i have if your ladies can help.

1-c section moms do you feel numb around the area of your stitches

2- how long do you bleed for after birth

3-the past few days dd has been grunting ALOT . anyone had this?

4-newborns now. what do you have them wearing? full sleepers or onesies or both?

5-weight loss-
when did you start exercising?
how much weight came off in what period of time ?
i gained 70lbs and lost 30 so far since birth(but i had pre eclampsia so that was all water weight) have another 40 but would like 50

6-birth announcements- when did you send them out?

sorry for all the questions but i am new at this Chat Icon

T.I.A



-c section moms do you feel numb around the area of your stitches- I am still numb 7 months later

2- how long do you bleed for after birth- about one month

3-the past few days dd has been grunting ALOT . anyone had this?

DS grunted when he was hungry



5-weight loss-
when did you start exercising?
how much weight came off in what period of time ?
i gained 70lbs and lost 30 so far since birth(but i had pre eclampsia so that was all water weight) have another 40 but would like 50-

I only gained 18 pounds. 28 pounds came off in about 4 weeks. I began walking at 4 weeks post birth

6-birth announcements- when did you send them out? 6 weeks after

Posted 6/7/09 9:26 AM
 

Stefanie

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Re: New mom . with a couple of questions

Congrats and welcome to the other side...Chat Icon

1. Yes, I felt numb around the area for quite some time. I'm 7 months pp and it still feels weird.

2. I bled for about a month.

3. My first son snorted/grunted in the beginning...it went away.

4. I would put my first son (who was born in June) in a onesie and then swaddle him in a blanket at night. We always have the central air on in the summer, so I dressed him warm at night.

5. 6 weeks I went for my check up and got the ok to work out. I lost the weight in about 5 months, with the help of a personal trainer for the first one. The second pregnancy, I lost the weight after about 5 months again.

6. I sent out birth announcements a month after Nikolas was born. Since I made my own, I had the design all made and when I took a picture of him, I just popped it in and sent them out to be printed.

Posted 6/7/09 9:32 AM
 

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Re: New mom . with a couple of questions

1-c section moms do you feel numb around the area of your stitches
Yep! Totally normal. From what I understand, you will feel numb for QUITE a while!

2- how long do you bleed for after birth
I bled for about four weeks :(

3-the past few days dd has been grunting ALOT . anyone had this?
My DD grunted A LOT when she was a newborn. She's now almost 12 weeks, and still does it occasionally. Totally normal.

4-newborns now. what do you have them wearing? full sleepers or onesies or both?
My DD sleeps in a short sleeved onesie and then is swaddled in her miracle blanket.

5-weight loss-
when did you start exercising? Exercise?? What's that? :-P
how much weight came off in what period of time ?
I wound up gaining 55 pounds due to preeclampsia. I am 11 1/2 weeks PP and have lost 45 pounds. It came off VERY quickly once the preeclampsia went away.

6-birth announcements- when did you send them out?
I sent them out about a month after DD was born (took a while to get my butt in gear and get them out!).

Good Luck!! Chat Icon

Message edited 6/7/2009 9:35:27 AM.

Posted 6/7/09 9:34 AM
 

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Re: New mom . with a couple of questions

Congrats!!!

1-c section moms do you feel numb around the area of your stitches
NO

2- how long do you bleed for after birth
6 weeks

3-the past few days dd has been grunting ALOT . anyone had this?
yea, my DS was kinda "backed up" until we started him on Gentlease, then that stopped

4-newborns now. what do you have them wearing? full sleepers or onesies or both?
NA

5-weight loss-
when did you start exercising?
LOL, haven't started and DS is 4.5 mos
how much weight came off in what period of time ?
I'm down 25lbs from pregnancy.
i gained 70lbs and lost 30 so far since birth(but i had pre eclampsia so that was all water weight) have another 40 but would like 50

6-birth announcements- when did you send them out?
When DS was about 8 weeks

Posted 6/7/09 9:45 AM
 

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Re: New mom . with a couple of questions

Congrats!!!

1-c section moms do you feel numb around the area of your stitches
Yes, I did. 1 year later the scar is still numb.

2- how long do you bleed for after birth
I bled A LOT! 6 week HEAVY bleeding for me.

3-the past few days dd has been grunting ALOT . anyone had this?
Yep, DS grunted a lot also.

4-newborns now. what do you have them wearing? full sleepers or onesies or both?
DS was born last May also. He slept in the long sleeved shirts from the hospital or long sleeved onesie, and then his legs were wrapped in a blanket (loosely swaddled)

5-weight loss-
when did you start exercising?
how much weight came off in what period of time ?
i gained 70lbs and lost 30 so far since birth(but i had pre eclampsia so that was all water weight) have another 40 but would like 50
Started walking right away. Real exercise, more like 7 months post partum. I have now lost all but 2 lbs 1 year post partum. I gained 56 lbs, lost 22 by the time I came home from the hospital, and was down 46 (10 lbs over) for a LOOONG time. The last 10 lbs did not want to go away!

6-birth announcements- when did you send them out?
Before he was 2 weeks old. I took pics at 6 days old, ordered them the same day, and had everything mailed a few days later.

Posted 6/7/09 9:51 AM
 

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Re: New mom . with a couple of questions



First of all congrats! Here are my answers
1-c section moms do you feel numb around the area of your stitches-

Yup and still do! Its been 4 months next week. But the stitches are healing well and the scarring has been minimal.

2- how long do you bleed for after birth?
I bled about two weeks and then had discharge like stuff for another 2.

3-the past few days dd has been grunting ALOT . anyone had this?

All babies grunt- totally normal.

4-newborns now. what do you have them wearing? full sleepers or onesies or both?
Had both babies in full sleepers but they were winter babies. Onesies are fine when its hotter.

5-weight loss-
when did you start exercising?
started walking longer distances at the 6 week point and went back to the gym at 8 weeks.

how much weight came off in what period of time ?
I gained about 30 and lost all of it plus a couple of pounds. But I work out 4 days a week and watch what I eat. I am still actively breastfeeding too.

6-birth announcements- when did you send them out?
I sent them out about 6 weeks after he was born.

sorry for all the questions but i am new at this Chat Icon
Hope this helps!

Posted 6/7/09 10:46 AM
 

lakadema
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Re: New mom . with a couple of questions

First of all congrats! Here are my answers
1-c section moms do you feel numb around the area of your stitches-

I didn't have a section so I cannot help there.

2- how long do you bleed for after birth?
I bled for 3 weeks.

3-the past few days dd has been grunting ALOT . anyone had this?

My son grunts like a mad man. He is 9 weeks old.

4-newborns now. what do you have them wearing? full sleepers or onesies or both?
I had him in a full sleeper from the beginning.

5-weight loss-
when did you start exercising?
I started working out a week ago when DS was 8 weeks old.

how much weight came off in what period of time ?
I gained 25 pounds total and have lost all but 5 of them. Now that I am working out it will come off quicker(I hope). I also started restricting my snacks again like I used to before being pregnant.

6-birth announcements- when did you send them out?
Still have not done this.

Posted 6/7/09 1:01 PM
 

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Re: New mom . with a couple of questions

1-c section moms do you feel numb around the area of your stitches

No, not really, but then again, I try not to look at it much. I only feel it when I clean it with peroxide.

2- how long do you bleed for after birth

I'm almost 4 weeks post birth and I still get a little light bleeding.

3-the past few days dd has been grunting ALOT . anyone had this?

Yes, my DD is very squirmy, wiggly and makes LOTS of noise, moistly in her sleep.

4-newborns now. what do you have them wearing? full sleepers or onesies or both?

The weather is warmer right now, I have her in onesies and light pants or sleepers. It depends on the day, the weather has been erratic.

5-weight loss-
when did you start exercising?
how much weight came off in what period of time ?

I gained about 50 pounds and was borderline pre-enclampsia. I lost 30 already and on nice days I take DD for walks in her stroller. This week (week 4) I plan on getting out my fitness ball and using that as well.

6-birth announcements- when did you send them out?

At her 3 week mark.

Posted 6/7/09 1:25 PM
 

shapla79
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Re: New mom . with a couple of questions

1- Didn't have one so I can't help you there.

2- I bled for about 5 weeks.

3- DS never grunted, but he arched his back a lot due to reflux.

4- DS was a spring baby and he slept in a onesie and a pair of socks. Occasionally, he's sleep in a thin gown.

5- I didn't get around to exercising, but all the weight plus an extra 5 pounds came off by pumping milk.

6- We never sent an announcement in the mail. We just told people online in a mass e-mail.

Posted 6/7/09 1:30 PM
 

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Re: New mom . with a couple of questions

Posted by dom-n-nic

Hi everyone
new mom here
had my baby girl may 27th, sharing a bday with sweets13 babygirl also who happens to be a good friend :)

couple of questions i have if your ladies can help.

1-c section moms do you feel numb around the area of your stitches

2- how long do you bleed for after birth

3-the past few days dd has been grunting ALOT . anyone had this?

4-newborns now. what do you have them wearing? full sleepers or onesies or both?

5-weight loss-
when did you start exercising?
how much weight came off in what period of time ?
i gained 70lbs and lost 30 so far since birth(but i had pre eclampsia so that was all water weight) have another 40 but would like 50

6-birth announcements- when did you send them out?

sorry for all the questions but i am new at this Chat Icon

T.I.A



Congratulations!!!
1-yes totally normal, I'm 7 months post partum and still have a little numbness at my incision

2-6 wks

3-totally normal, my DS did this a lot too

4-usually lightweight pjs or if its extra warm a onesie. when AC is on full sleepers with feet

5-I lost the majority of the weight a couple of weeks after my c-section but my belly didn't go down for a couple of months

6-I sent out birth announcements 1 month later, I delivered right before the holidays so worked on them earlier than I probably would have to get them out before christmas.

Posted 6/7/09 9:41 PM
 

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Re: New mom . with a couple of questions

1-c section moms do you feel numb around the area of your stitches

YES, one year later and still a little numb

2- how long do you bleed for after birth

FOr like 6-8 weeks..heavy!

3-the past few days dd has been grunting ALOT . anyone had this?

YES, my kids were gassy and grunted alot!

4-newborns now. what do you have them wearing? full sleepers or onesies or both?

Mattea wore alot of short sleeve onesies since it was VERY hot this time last year. For bedtime, she was swaddled and wore a short sleeve onesie

5-weight loss-
when did you start exercising? LOLOL!
how much weight came off in what period of time ? I lost most of the weight very fast.

6-birth announcements- she was 1 month when we sent them out!

LOVE YOU!

Posted 6/11/09 3:13 PM
 

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Re: New mom . with a couple of questions

Posted by dom-n-nic


1-c section moms do you feel numb around the area of your stitches

2- how long do you bleed for after birth

3-the past few days dd has been grunting ALOT . anyone had this?

4-newborns now. what do you have them wearing? full sleepers or onesies or both?

5-weight loss-


6-birth announcements- when did you send them out?

sorry for all the questions but i am new at this Chat Icon

T.I.A



My DD was born only 4 days before your DC on May 23rd. This is my 2nd Chat Icon (I also have a 23.5 month old).

1) Yes, this is my second section and it is TOTALLY normal for your incision to be numb as well as the surrounding area.

2) It depends on the person with DD #1 I bleed on and off for 7-8 weeks - but I didn't get my AF until 8.5 months b.c I was EBF.

3) No DD doesn't grunt a lot but I think many newborns do this and it is perfectly normal.

4) We have been putting DD so far in either long sleeve shirts with footed pants outfits or I have several Little Me gowns that turn into one piece outfits with legs depending on how you button them. Our house has been cool though (about 70 degrees) it is going to warm up soon so I will probably be using more onesies and blankets soon.

5) Well I think I'm an exception - with DD#1 I lost 40 lbs (30 by the time I left the hospital and 10 lbs within a week after leaving the hospital) - but that was all the weight I gained with DD. I did have pre-eclampsia both pregnancies. With this recent pregnancy - I only gained 12-13 lbs TOTAL BUT I have already lost about 37-38 lbs. I had post partum thyroiditis with DD#1 so I think that might be part of it - as well as the fact that I did retain water with this pregnancy b.c I was preeclampsic again.

6) I did a photo shoot with Ava Jack last wed - so I'm just waiting for all of the photos - to determine which ones I want to use - then as soon as I review them all I will pick out a few and do the announcements right away.

Posted 6/11/09 5:22 PM
 

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Re: New mom . with a couple of questions

Posted by dom-n-nic

Hi everyone
new mom here
had my baby girl may 27th, sharing a bday with sweets13 babygirl also who happens to be a good friend :)

couple of questions i have if your ladies can help.

1-c section moms do you feel numb around the area of your stitches

2- how long do you bleed for after birth

3-the past few days dd has been grunting ALOT . anyone had this?

4-newborns now. what do you have them wearing? full sleepers or onesies or both?

5-weight loss-
when did you start exercising?
how much weight came off in what period of time ?
i gained 70lbs and lost 30 so far since birth(but i had pre eclampsia so that was all water weight) have another 40 but would like 50

6-birth announcements- when did you send them out?

sorry for all the questions but i am new at this Chat Icon

T.I.A



1. I had a vag birth- sorry! Chat Icon
2. I bled for about 6 weeks.
3. My DD grunted at night until she was about 10 weeks old, many newborns do.
4. Depends on how your newborns temp is. My DD is a very hot baby [just like her daddy] so I dressed her in a short sleeved onesie and a swaddle me. When we stopped swaddling, she is in footie pjs and a sleep sack. Plus I keep her room cool.
5. I was told I could start exercising at my 6 week check up with my OB. Having a csection may require more time to heal. When you go for your 6 week appt, ask the OB when you are in the clear. It would be no sooner than this.
6. I sent out my announcements 10 days after DD was born. I did them when she was taking a nap. I used a pic I had taken of her in the NICU and got them made up at Costco. Great price and really easy! Chat Icon

Congratulations on the birth of your DD!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/11/09 6:19 PM
 

EricaAlt
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Re: New mom . with a couple of questions

Posted by dom-n-nic

Hi everyone
new mom here
had my baby girl may 27th, sharing a bday with sweets13 babygirl also who happens to be a good friend :)

couple of questions i have if your ladies can help.

1-c section moms do you feel numb around the area of your stitches

2- how long do you bleed for after birth

3-the past few days dd has been grunting ALOT . anyone had this?

4-newborns now. what do you have them wearing? full sleepers or onesies or both?

5-weight loss-
when did you start exercising?
how much weight came off in what period of time ?
i gained 70lbs and lost 30 so far since birth(but i had pre eclampsia so that was all water weight) have another 40 but would like 50

6-birth announcements- when did you send them out?

sorry for all the questions but i am new at this Chat Icon

T.I.A




Awe... our kids are a day apart. Mason was born on the 28th

1 - also had a c-section and it's not numb. More tender

2 - 2 weeks and still bleeding, but not as much as last week. I'll go all day not bleeding then boom... a lot comes out. So sporadic, but a lot less

3 - yup, Mason grunts a lot too

4 - onsies during the day and sleeer at night b/c it's easier to change him

5 - gained 22 pounds and lost it all. Doc said I can exercise next week since I'm healing well. Excercised my entire pregnancy

6 - just ordered ours yesterday so will probably send it next week

Posted 6/11/09 6:20 PM
 
 

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