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Need help and some advice

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AJsMommy122
Stop 2 smell the roses

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Maxine

Need help and some advice

DH's brother is getting married and DH is the best man. He loves his brother and they are very close but he CAN NOT stand his FSIL and think she is VERY MUCH the wrong person for his brother.

He wants to give a nice speech but at the same time does not want to be fake Chat Icon

Any advice or tips?

Posted 10/26/05 6:48 PM
 
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Redhead
You Live, You Learn

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Jennifer

Re: Need help and some advice

I would tell him to fake it...
If her really doesn't like her...well there is no other option left

With the exception that 90% of the speech dedicated to his brother then a short and sweet "we welcome_______ to our wonderful, loving family"

Posted 10/26/05 6:50 PM
 

AJsMommy122
Stop 2 smell the roses

Member since 5/05

2048 total posts

Name:
Maxine

Re: Need help and some advice

Posted by Redhead

I would tell him to fake it...
If her really doesn't like her...well there is no other option left

With the exception that 90% of the speech dedicated to his brother then a short and sweet "we welcome_______ to our wonderful, loving family"



He REALLY can not stand her and she pretty much feels the same way.. its really an ugly situation.

But I get what you are saying. ThanksChat Icon

Posted 10/26/05 6:52 PM
 

Redhead
You Live, You Learn

Member since 5/05

31871 total posts

Name:
Jennifer

Re: Need help and some advice

well then i would tell him to do the speech primarily to his brother and then end with a welcome FSIL to the family

Posted 10/26/05 6:55 PM
 

JodiBabe
Married for 9 yrs!!!!!!

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Jodi

Re: Need help and some advice

Posted by Redhead

I would tell him to fake it...
If her really doesn't like her...well there is no other option left

With the exception that 90% of the speech dedicated to his brother then a short and sweet "we welcome_______ to our wonderful, loving family"



I agree!!!!!

Posted 10/26/05 6:59 PM
 

suvenR
designer mutt

Member since 5/05

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Re: Need help and some advice

he should do a nice toast.

Our BM spoke for 4 minutes. FOUR MINUTES. And, only in the last 20 seconds did he mention me.

The best man is supposted to toast the bride!

Posted 10/26/05 7:01 PM
 

Baboots
I miss you grandma

Member since 8/05

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Re: Need help and some advice

The best man is supposted to toast the bride!



I didn't know this....interesting.

Message edited 10/26/2005 7:07:51 PM.

Posted 10/26/05 7:07 PM
 
 

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