just need to vent...

So DH and I are moving oos in 2 weeks!!
I am 19 weeks prego with a 2 yr old
My inlaws are helping us out tremendously and I appriciated everything but I'm going to kill them soon!!

We are the ones moving and yet they are scheduling everything telling giving us a list of everything that has to get done (as if we didnt know) my MIL is in a complete panic and everytime she is here she feels the need to tell me we are not going to get everything done in time...yet she calls me at noon to tell me she is going to go shopping then come here to help...she will not be here until 4pm and then the priority will be feeding everyone. I can not cook for them only because Im not a short order chef and this one wont eat this, that one wont eat that and it seems like what ever I planned on making that day is no good so she brings food...ok great I dont have to cook but if the plan was for her to come her and help but now we have to stop to cook food for everyone then clean up no wonder why nothing gets done!


Emotions are running high and I am trying so hard to stay calm and keep everyone at peace but my goodness there is really only so much I can take...MIL has been criticizing me left and right and I just keep smiling, or everyonce and a while I'll come back with a comment and a smile...
dh knows how his mom can be and just tells me to try to deal with it for the next two weeks...that he wouldnt be able to handle anymore stress (his dad has been doing the same to him)

anyway thanks for the vent

on the upside...20 wk sono is Tuesday

Re: just need to vent...

First: to all the bs you're dealing with...

Second: for 20 wk sono!!