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JavaJunkie
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Lois
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Just need to vent
I had another IUI on the 3rd/4th, I go in for my beta this friday, today I decided to test myself and BFN 
Dr. B said this time I couldn't have asked for a better cycle and size/amt of eggs, I'm not sure after 16 months of this how much longer I can keep going through this
Just needed to get that out!
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skinny
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Re: Just need to vent
Vent away!
I'm sorry that u got a BFN. It's such a crappy feeling. If AF shows up, can you set up a time to meet with the dr to see what your options are? R u ready to take that HUGE leap to the next step?
You're not out yet though----it's still early.
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| Posted 9/15/09 9:13 AM |
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JavaJunkie
Someday, Somehow
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Lois
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Re: Just need to vent
Posted by skinny
Vent away!
I'm sorry that u got a BFN. It's such a crappy feeling. If AF shows up, can you set up a time to meet with the dr to see what your options are? R u ready to take that HUGE leap to the next step?
You're not out yet though----it's still early.
I will still go in for my beta friday and then Dr. B and I will sit down again just like after every other BFN. I'm just so drained of this KWIM
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| Posted 9/15/09 9:18 AM |
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skinny
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Re: Just need to vent
Posted by JavaJunkie
Posted by skinny
Vent away!
I'm sorry that u got a BFN. It's such a crappy feeling. If AF shows up, can you set up a time to meet with the dr to see what your options are? R u ready to take that HUGE leap to the next step?
You're not out yet though----it's still early.
I will still go in for my beta friday and then Dr. B and I will sit down again just like after every other BFN. I'm just so drained of this KWIM
I know how you feel. You almost come to expect a BFN after awhile. It's frustrating and disappointing, to say the least. We had 4 cycles of IUI w/ Clomid. I usually had 4 great follies. No health issues, just "unexplained IF." No clue why it didn't worked for me. U feel like crap when u know AF is coming and even worse when she comes.
How many IUI's have you had?
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| Posted 9/15/09 9:28 AM |
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KrisT
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Re: Just need to vent
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JavaJunkie
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Re: Just need to vent
Posted by skinny
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Posted by skinny
Vent away!
I'm sorry that u got a BFN. It's such a crappy feeling. If AF shows up, can you set up a time to meet with the dr to see what your options are? R u ready to take that HUGE leap to the next step?
You're not out yet though----it's still early.
I will still go in for my beta friday and then Dr. B and I will sit down again just like after every other BFN. I'm just so drained of this KWIM
I know how you feel. You almost come to expect a BFN after awhile. It's frustrating and disappointing, to say the least. We had 4 cycles of IUI w/ Clomid. I usually had 4 great follies. No health issues, just "unexplained IF." No clue why it didn't worked for me. U feel like crap when u know AF is coming and even worse when she comes.
How many IUI's have you had?
Right, I always kind of expect the BFN and not that it doesn't hurt but this time I had such a good feeling. I waited a full 12 months of trying, against my better judgment, to see Dr. B, this is our 2nd IUI. When I first started seeing him I was having large follies on CD3, we need to clear that up before we could do the IUI's. I am on progesterone and was reading that sometime you dont get AF while taking it, so I have to wait until after the beta to come off and then get AF again 
Sorry you've been going through so much too! What are your plans now?
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| Posted 9/15/09 9:36 AM |
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skinny
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Re: Just need to vent
We finally decided to go to IVF. Today is my last day of BC and I start stimming on Friday. I guess I finally got sick of IUI's. I felt so hopeful every month, but in reality, your "chances" w/ an IUI aren't super high. Obviously they work for some people, but I'm 33 and really don't want to wait much longer. I know, I'm impatient.
I did the progesterone too....It's very possible that it's thrown your cycle off so it's good that you are going in for a beta. I think my cycle was longer when I was on the progesterone so I am  that it worked for you this month. The next few days will be torture, I'm sure!
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| Posted 9/15/09 9:41 AM |
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JavaJunkie
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Lois
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Re: Just need to vent
You're not impatient, you are just ready to move on! Good luck to you! Keep me posted on your progress!
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| Posted 9/15/09 9:44 AM |
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mnmsoinlove
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Re: Just need to vent
It really is so frustrating. Hang in there its early. 
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| Posted 9/15/09 10:00 AM |
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lolipep
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Re: Just need to vent
I'm really sorry you're going through this-it is so hard but hang in there and remember we are all here for support
I pray this all works out for you
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| Posted 9/15/09 10:03 AM |
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mnmsoinlove
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Re: Just need to vent
So sorry you facing all of this. It really is difficult sometimes to stay positive but its so important to stay positive and focused.
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| Posted 9/15/09 10:43 AM |
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maybeamommy
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Re: Just need to vent
I'm sorry! This whole process can be so frustrating!
So much of it is trial and error... and we always have the highest expectations! But when it DOES work, you'll see that it is all worth it...
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| Posted 9/15/09 10:51 AM |
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MetsGirl07
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Re: Just need to vent
hang in there sweetie!!
you are still early.. i am praying for you!!
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| Posted 9/15/09 11:01 AM |
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Makin-da-baby
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Re: Just need to vent
I'm sorry you are feeling so frustrated
Some months just feel like they HAVE to work because everything is going so perfectly but unexplicably it doesn't and that is a very hard pill to swallow.
Don't give up, you are just having a bad day. I tend to feel like this at the end of a cycle but always feel refreshed when a new one begins.
You will get there step by step. Just take it one day at time
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