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spooks
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Just need to vent - silly friend thing-
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Posted 3/17/09 9:45 AM |
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maybeamommy
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Posted 3/17/09 10:33 AM |
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ETAB
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Re: Just need to vent - silly friend thing
I know how hard it is. Would you guys have gone out for lunch prior to her getting pregnant?
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Posted 3/17/09 10:49 AM |
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MrsMessina
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Posted 3/17/09 11:15 AM |
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spooks
So in love!

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Re: Just need to vent - silly friend thing
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Posted 3/17/09 11:17 AM |
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MrsMessina
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Re: Just need to vent - silly friend thing
Posted by spooks is that silly to time my meetings with people according to where I'm at in my cycle and level of positivity:).
ABSOLUTELY NOT!!! You do what you have to do.
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Posted 3/17/09 11:22 AM |
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Diana712
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Re: Just need to vent - silly friend thing
unless you have been through the pain of this IF journey, I do not believe these feelings can be understood..
I am here to tell you they are real and valid feelings that are beyond your control.. I found it IMPOSSIBLE to even look at babies or pregnant woman when I was at the end of this.. And I really felt guilty at first but the pain just got worse with every disappointment that eventually I could careless what anyone had to say about me.. Too bad.. This was unbearable to me.. So i totally know exactly what you feel like.. And I am sure many of do..
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Posted 3/17/09 12:41 PM |
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ynot2
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Re: Just need to vent - silly friend thing
Posted by dilb712
unless you have been through the pain of this IF journey, I do not believe these feelings can be understood..
I am here to tell you they are real and valid feelings that are beyond your control.. I found it IMPOSSIBLE to even look at babies or pregnant woman when I was at the end of this.. And I really felt guilty at first but the pain just got worse with every disappointment that eventually I could careless what anyone had to say about me.. Too bad.. This was unbearable to me.. So i totally know exactly what you feel like.. And I am sure many of do..
ITA!!!!!! GL with whatever decision you make.
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Posted 3/17/09 4:32 PM |
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-BabyMiracle-
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Re: Just need to vent - silly friend thing
Posted by dilb712
unless you have been through the pain of this IF journey, I do not believe these feelings can be understood..
I am here to tell you they are real and valid feelings that are beyond your control.. I found it IMPOSSIBLE to even look at babies or pregnant woman when I was at the end of this.. And I really felt guilty at first but the pain just got worse with every disappointment that eventually I could careless what anyone had to say about me.. Too bad.. This was unbearable to me.. So i totally know exactly what you feel like.. And I am sure many of do..
You do what you gotta do to survive, and at this point you are the only one who matters!
Do what you think is right for YOU!
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Posted 3/17/09 6:48 PM |
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spooks
So in love!

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Re: Just need to vent - silly friend thing
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Message edited 4/30/2009 1:59:57 PM.
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Posted 3/18/09 10:08 AM |
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spooks
So in love!

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Re: Just need to vent - silly friend thing-
bumping for update at top
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Posted 3/20/09 12:17 PM |
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JsWife
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Re: Just need to vent - silly friend thing-
Sometimes we get in over our heads while we are trying to do the right thing. I would definitely suck up lunch at this point but would nix the shopping trip. God forbid you end up shopping and she wants to pick out things for the baby - you don't need that!
Good Luck...
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Posted 3/20/09 12:28 PM |
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kelsept
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Re: Just need to vent - silly friend thing-
Hang in there, i just notice it said she has a baby already-not easy and i really had a hard time being around babies with my friends that already had them...
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Posted 3/22/09 5:09 PM |
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