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Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

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Madibee
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Madeline

Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

I have so many excellent ideas. I want to be able to do it my way! Please share your thoughts!

Posted 4/1/10 2:09 PM
 
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DSLaff
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Dana

Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

i dont think so at all. i think its fun!

Posted 4/1/10 2:13 PM
 

nicopico13
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Nicole

Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

Not at all, I'm doing it! Chat Icon

Posted 4/1/10 2:13 PM
 

Mrs-D-Girl
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

I don't think it's tacky at all. Now throwing it for youself.....that is another story Chat Icon

You know what you like and there is nothing wrong with helping.

Posted 4/1/10 2:14 PM
 

Madibee
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Madeline

Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

I didn't think so either, but you know other people talk a bunch of smack! I wanna have so much fun planning. So excited about it!

Posted 4/1/10 2:15 PM
 

babybear
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Meghan

Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

i definitely gave input into my shower!

Posted 4/1/10 2:16 PM
 

GossipQueen

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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

No, not at all. I am helping my mom plan mine.

Posted 4/1/10 2:19 PM
 

Cpt2007
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Liz

Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

i think there is a difference b/w helping to plan and planning, and certainly b/w planning and hosting.

has someone offered to host one for you?

Posted 4/1/10 2:23 PM
 

Madibee
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Madeline

Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

Posted by Cpt2007

i think there is a difference b/w helping to plan and planning, and certainly b/w planning and hosting.

has someone offered to host one for you?



Yes, and I really don't want to be mean, but this person does not throw pretty good parties. I just mentioned to her that hubby and I want to plan it all ourselves.

Posted 4/1/10 2:25 PM
 

CrankyPants
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

Posted by Madibee

Posted by Cpt2007

i think there is a difference b/w helping to plan and planning, and certainly b/w planning and hosting.

has someone offered to host one for you?



Yes, and I really don't want to be mean, but this person does not throw pretty good parties. I just mentioned to her that hubby and I want to plan it all ourselves.



I don't think I would throw my own shower. I helped a little in the planning of my shower but I would never be the host-but that's just me.

Posted 4/1/10 2:29 PM
 

sj-girl
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

NO, I wish I had some say in mine. The only thing I would have changed is the date, my shower was about 3-4 weeks b4 I was due. I was a nervous wreck bc my Dr kept telling me he thought I was going to go early

Posted 4/1/10 2:33 PM
 

XcalystaX
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S

Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

I did all the planning and then had the invites say it was being thrown by my parents just so people wouldn't talk smack.

Posted 4/1/10 2:45 PM
 

lyss4525
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Member since 12/09

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Alyssa

Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

I have been helping my mom, who is hosting. It is different than a bridal shower, since there is no bridal party to do the planning! My aunts, sisters in law, and MIL are all out of state, so they couldn't really help out. I just felt bad that my mom had so much to do, so I am working on it with her - and it is fun!

Posted 4/1/10 4:27 PM
 

chris605
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

I totally helped with mine and i am glad i did... it was perfect... Chat Icon

Posted 4/1/10 4:30 PM
 

BabysMomma29
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Tricia aka MattandTricia07

Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

I'm helping my mom plan it- hope not Chat Icon

Posted 4/1/10 5:23 PM
 

MamaB17
Back for baby #3

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N

Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

I don't think so. I think some ppl might think it is. My mom is hosting mine, but I have been way more involved then she would like. Chat Icon I picked the invitations, the venue, the menu, the favors. I am making up for my bridal shower being a surprise.

Posted 4/1/10 5:26 PM
 

mommy2B3
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M

Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

I planned the entire thing, but said my mom and MIL were the hosts because they did help with some expenses.

Posted 4/1/10 5:27 PM
 

LuvmyShihTzu
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Happiest Mommy <3

Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

I think more of us here planned or helped planned our own showers than didn't..go for it!

Posted 4/1/10 6:10 PM
 

OrganicMama
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Member since 6/08

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Mama

Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

I would LOVE to help plan mine, but I'm not allowed Chat Icon . My MIL is hosting the shower but SIL and DH's cousin are doing most of the planning. I know the date and place, and the only thing I was allowed to see was the invite.

So obviously I don't think it's tacky at all!

Posted 4/1/10 7:18 PM
 

MrsSpring
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L

Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

totally not. go for it

Posted 4/1/10 7:38 PM
 

Candy Girl
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erin

Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

Crashing-- I planned my own shower. My DH gave me the money and I planned it with my sister's help. She bought three small centerpieces, wrote out the invitations and dealt with all of the rsvps. It was very nice and just the way I wanted it!

Posted 4/1/10 7:49 PM
 

Candy Girl
Candy girl- you are so sweet!

Member since 11/07

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erin

Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

Posted by XcalystaX

I did all the planning and then had the invites say it was being thrown by my parents just so people wouldn't talk smack.



I wanted to add thaT i DID THIS TOO--PUT MY SISTER'S NAME AS THE HOST. (sorry , hit cap locks and too lazy to rewrite. )

Posted 4/1/10 7:50 PM
 

d-h2008
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D EDD: 8/29/2010

Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

Hi, I am planning my own shower, but not voluntarilty. My mom is "too busy for it". I dont want people to think im wierd so on the invite I will have to put thats its hosted by her... even though its not.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/1/10 8:19 PM
 

Madibee
LIF Infant

Member since 3/10

176 total posts

Name:
Madeline

Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

Thanks Ladies,. I'm gonna give it a go!

Posted 4/2/10 9:49 AM
 

Daisy32
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Re: Is it tacky to plan your own baby shower?

not tacky at all....enjoy the planning Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/2/10 10:56 AM
 
 

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