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2BEANS
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Tina
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Inlaw question what would you do?
My DH spoke with his brother last night about if he was coming to my dd baptism. First off we texted him weeks ago for his new address, and he didnt respond. So we sent the invite to DH's sisters house, since she sees him more often being they leave near each other. He tells dh he didnt pick up invite yet, and it depends if hes working that sunday. He works every other sunday.. My question to him is "you cant switch your sunday or take off".. He works for a car dealership, its not like his job is something that is life threatening. I cant stand him first of all, hes mean to my dh and i think hes a loser. This is his neice!!! I feel like calling him and telling him not to bother coming and his neice will be fine with out him being there. Dhs response she doesnt need him, she has us and thats what matters. I agree with him but i feel horrible for my precious peanut.
I needed to vent sorry.
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Posted 1/25/08 9:06 AM  |
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waterspout4
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Re: Inlaw question what would you do?
I'd let it go. Sounds like it's just the way the guy is. No need to get all angry before the baptism. Sounds like you would enjoy it more without him anyway. 
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| Posted 1/25/08 9:09 AM |
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MyChip-n-Dales
lifes many lil twisted curves
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aeriell
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Re: Inlaw question what would you do?
Ok first for you.
second, being a wife of a husband in the car business i can understand him not being able to take off... my dh is the gemeral manager and im lucky if i see him on the sunday hes supposed to be let alone getting him to take a weekend day off. the management team does give a hard time for taking a weekend off.. but yes he should have picked up the invite weeks ago and arranged to SWITCH his day to make your party!!!!! i agree with that 100%
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| Posted 1/25/08 9:13 AM |
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2BEANS
wow time is going fast.
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Tina
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Re: Inlaw question what would you do?
Posted by twinboys425
Ok first for you.
second, being a wife of a husband in the car business i can understand him not being able to take off... my dh is the gemeral manager and im lucky if i see him on the sunday hes supposed to be let alone getting him to take a weekend day off. the management team does give a hard time for taking a weekend off.. but yes he should have picked up the invite weeks ago and arranged to SWITCH his day to make your party!!!!! i agree with that 100%
i understand it can be hard to take off, but ill bet you $20 he will make sure hes out of work or off on the superbowl!!! which is the sunday before my dd baptism, so thats why i think he wont be able to go.. b/c he would have used his favor on that!
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| Posted 1/25/08 9:15 AM |
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MyChip-n-Dales
lifes many lil twisted curves
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aeriell
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Re: Inlaw question what would you do?
ewwwww kick his a*** then!
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| Posted 1/25/08 9:31 AM |
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mommy0604
My Son is my world...
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Re: Inlaw question what would you do?
Forget him. You don't need him there. He should have picked up the invite weeks ago, then maybe he could have arranged it weeks ago to have the sunday off for your DD's baptism...
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| Posted 1/25/08 9:44 AM |
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RMA9728
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Re: Inlaw question what would you do?
I'd let it go. DH's sister is like that. For my first dd's blessing she told us she was going and then didn't show up that day....didn't call or anything. Her excuse was she didn't have money to get a gift and felt weird coming without one. Uh...hellooooo...I didn't have a blessing so I could get gifts...for me it was a lame excuse and she continues to things like this and my oldest is now 7. I've learned to let it go and not to stress, you BIL is the one missing out.
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| Posted 1/25/08 11:56 AM |
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juanvi
Get Out!
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Christina
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| Posted 1/25/08 12:08 PM |
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Theresa05
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Re: Inlaw question what would you do?
I would flip.. that is just SOO rude!
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| Posted 1/25/08 12:36 PM |
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Belladonna219
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Re: Inlaw question what would you do?
He is a loser! If he really wanted to go he would make an effort. I would not push the issue any further why bother? He is not worth getting upset about and I am sure you have plenty of other family members WHO DO want to be there and love her.
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| Posted 1/25/08 12:49 PM |
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Re: Inlaw question what would you do?
I'm sorry... If he was half the man/brother/uncle he should be, he would be at your DD's christening.
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| Posted 1/25/08 12:54 PM |
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