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eroxgirl
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I'm so upset. Tomorrow's my anatomy scan...
and I juts got off the phone with DH after reminding him about it for the 29873482742580th time and he said "oh, you want me to go with you?" 
I can't believe he had absolutely no desire to come with me to see his baby again.. to learn the sex.. to just spend some extra time with him... what the hellll did he think I kept reminding him for?
He said that since he didn't come with me for my anatomy scan with DD he didn't think he needed to come with me this time, either. But when I was pregnant with DD, he had just started in a new office 2 weeks before and he didn't feel comfortable asking for the time which I understood 1000%. DH doesn't remember why he didn't come last time  he just thought since he didn't then, there's no reason to now. 
I'm so upset I could cry. I don't want him to come with me at all now.
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NervousNell
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Re: I'm so upset. Tomorrow's my anatomy scan...
Sounds just like my husband.
He had no inclination that maybe he should come to this.
NONE.
He never went to any appointments with me leading up to it and the only reason he came to my amnio was because they didn't want me driving home so I needed a ride.
I was like- fine whatever- do what you want.
Then all of a sudden that morning, he texted me that he wanted to come and what time was the appointment.
Seems some of his friends at work made him feel guilty. 
Sad that it took some other guys to make him feel he should be there...
I really don't get men sometimes.
You had sex... I have to do everything else to produce and birth this baby. I would LOVE it if my only responsibilty was to show up to a few appointments and hold my spouses hand while she was giving birth.
Please...I'd take that ANY day.
I feel your pain! 
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headoverheels
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Re: I'm so upset. Tomorrow's my anatomy scan...
Rebecca I'm so sorry. He's being so dumb. I hope he kisses your butt tonight! 
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| Posted 2/1/10 3:11 PM |
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Tine73
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Re: I'm so upset. Tomorrow's my anatomy scan...
I'm so sorry! Have the tech write it down for you and open it up when you are home together. Or you could be a ball buster and not tell him for awhile after you find out. 
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OrganicMama
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Re: I'm so upset. Tomorrow's my anatomy scan...
Posted by Tine73
I'm so sorry! Have the tech write it down for you and open it up when you are home together. Or you could be a ball buster and not tell him for awhile after you find out.
I would wait to tell him, or let him find out from someone else just to be a b!tch - but that's just me - not really a suggestion I would give to someone!
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Smileyd17
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Re: I'm so upset. Tomorrow's my anatomy scan...
Rebecca
Honestly I didnt even GIVE my DH the option! I made the appt and said...this is the date and make sure you do a later tour that day.
If it were up to him, he wouldnt be there either and ok, so maybe we kind of know what we are having but he should be there and be supportive of this pregnancy even if its #2 and #3.
Just men for ya....dont get it.
Does he know how upset you are over this?
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LoveyQ
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GioiaMia
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Re: I'm so upset. Tomorrow's my anatomy scan...
i'm sorry i totally understand, DH sees no reason to come with me for anything and the only reason ( although i am sure he wont admit it ) he comes for the special sonograms is because I dont drive and he has to drive me
they just dont get it sometimes!
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| Posted 2/2/10 7:08 AM |
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2PreciousBlessings
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MrsSpring
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jennarose023
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Re: I'm so upset. Tomorrow's my anatomy scan...
i hope he smartens up
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| Posted 2/2/10 7:56 AM |
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bluekat16
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Re: I'm so upset. Tomorrow's my anatomy scan...
Men just don't think sometimes!
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| Posted 2/2/10 9:08 AM |
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eroxgirl
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Re: I'm so upset. Tomorrow's my anatomy scan...
Thanks, everyone! He's coming with me. He told me as soon as I got home that he made the arrangements with work.
The big stupid head. 
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| Posted 2/2/10 9:49 AM |
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Ambersmom
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Re: I'm so upset. Tomorrow's my anatomy scan...
Awwh hon, I know how you feel I kind of feel the same way, like I'm doing this all myself. I went to TOWN on husband last weekend when I needed to go for my bloodwork and he gave me a hard time (I religiously pass out during bloodwork). If I'm suffering through the massive MS, the endless doctor's visits, the worry, etc., you better sure as $!ZT make it seem like you're interested AND involved ]
If he doesn't go, can you bring someone else? A close friend or Mom/Aunt/Sister?
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LoriH
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Re: I'm so upset. Tomorrow's my anatomy scan...
Glad he worked it out. This sounds like my DH too. He is just clueless sometimes. DH feels awful when he realizes what an idiot he was.
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