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I'm having a thought... re: babysitting....

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lipglossjunky73
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I'm having a thought... re: babysitting....

I'll just throw it out there...

I see so many moms (including me) who really can't ever go out at night because they don;t have sitters....

And there are many moms (like me) who really can not afford to hire a babysitter....

I'm wondering how you ladies would feel if we started some type of babysitting barter? So, we would babysit for someone and they in turn would commit to a night where they could babysit back?

Has anyone on here ever tried this?

Posted 11/5/07 8:44 PM
 
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waterspout4
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Re: I'm having a thought... re: babysitting....

I was thinking about this too!!! I like the idea!!Chat Icon

Posted 11/5/07 8:47 PM
 

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Re: I'm having a thought... re: babysitting....

Does it include travel to NJ? Chat Icon

Posted 11/5/07 8:53 PM
 

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Re: I'm having a thought... re: babysitting....

Haven't tried it but it sounds like a great idea.

Posted 11/5/07 8:54 PM
 

waterspout4
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Re: I'm having a thought... re: babysitting....

Posted by leighla

Does it include travel to NJ? Chat Icon



There are a bunch of girls in NJ.

My concern is actually knowing other people. I've only met a few of you. It's hard to trust.

Posted 11/5/07 8:58 PM
 

lipglossjunky73
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Re: I'm having a thought... re: babysitting....

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Posted by leighla

Does it include travel to NJ? Chat Icon



There are a bunch of girls in NJ.

My concern is actually knowing other people. I've only met a few of you. It's hard to trust.


Yeah - thats what I was thinking could be the thing that blows this idea apart.... But maybe for those that know and trust each other?

Posted 11/5/07 9:08 PM
 

Tah-wee-ZAH
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Re: I'm having a thought... re: babysitting....

I saw something on tv yesterday about this.

They have babysitting mixers... they compared it to speeddating for momsChat Icon All of the moms meet, they even give every mom a folder with every other mom's resume (that seemed a bit much to me). After you talk and "interview" each other, you can exchange contact info.

Another tactic was a website babysiting cooperative where moms can log on and request a babysitter for a specific date and time or a mom can log on and see if she wants to babysit for anyone. When you babysit you accrue points and you cash in your points when you need someone to baby sit for you. I believe the more kids, the more points. This site is member only and prescreened. Unfortunately, I can't remember the nameChat Icon

Posted 11/5/07 9:10 PM
 

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Re: I'm having a thought... re: babysitting....

Posted by lipglossjunky73

Posted by waterspout4

Posted by leighla

Does it include travel to NJ? Chat Icon



There are a bunch of girls in NJ.

My concern is actually knowing other people. I've only met a few of you. It's hard to trust.


Yeah - thats what I was thinking could be the thing that blows this idea apart.... But maybe for those that know and trust each other?



I don't think I could do this right now, but it is a good idea.

If you are nervous about meeting or trusting people, just have a gtg first of everyone and make it a meet and greet.

Posted 11/5/07 9:11 PM
 

lipglossjunky73
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Re: I'm having a thought... re: babysitting....

Posted by Tah-wee-ZAH

I saw something on tv yesterday about this.

They have babysitting mixers... they compared it to speeddating for momsChat Icon All of the moms meet, they even give every mom a folder with every other mom's resume (that seemed a bit much to me). After you talk and "interview" each other, you can exchange contact info.

Another tactic was a website babysiting cooperative where moms can log on and request a babysitter for a specific date and time or a mom can log on and see if she wants to babysit for anyone. When you babysit you accrue points and you cash in your points when you need someone to baby sit for you. I believe the more kids, the more points. This site is member only and prescreened. Unfortunately, I can't remember the nameChat Icon



Wow- that sounds interesting!!! Great ideas!!!!

Posted 11/5/07 9:15 PM
 

SweetCin
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Re: I'm having a thought... re: babysitting....

This definitely sounds like a great idea Liza. I think first though would definitely be meeting everyone/feeling comfortable, etc.

Maybe we could set up our own website type thing somehow w/ availability/dates needed or something

Posted 11/5/07 9:18 PM
 

lbelle821
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Re: I'm having a thought... re: babysitting....

Posted by leighla

Does it include travel to NJ? Chat Icon



I don't live that far from you...seriously if you ever need someone let me know. Matthew would love a little playmate. I know your son is a little older but they're probably the same size.

To other moms in NJ I'd be willing to do something like this.

Posted 11/5/07 9:21 PM
 

monters
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Re: I'm having a thought... re: babysitting....

Posted by lipglossjunky73

I'll just throw it out there...

I see so many moms (including me) who really can't ever go out at night because they don;t have sitters....

And there are many moms (like me) who really can not afford to hire a babysitter....

I'm wondering how you ladies would feel if we started some type of babysitting barter? So, we would babysit for someone and they in turn would commit to a night where they could babysit back?

Has anyone on here ever tried this?



Rachel had started this back in May-

http://www.lifamilies.com/chat/topic-159892-1.html

I then bumped the idea again in october but it doesn't seem to go anywhere..its a great idea..

Posted 11/5/07 9:22 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: I'm having a thought... re: babysitting....

Posted by monters

Rachel had started this back in May-

http://www.lifamilies.com/chat/topic-159892-1.html

I then bumped the idea again in october but it doesn't seem to go anywhere..its a great idea..



It's a great idea. I was going to say I thought someone posted this idea a while back.

Posted 11/5/07 9:24 PM
 

Tah-wee-ZAH
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Re: I'm having a thought... re: babysitting....

I remembered I saw it on CBS2 news and it was a segment reported by Kirsten Cole (who I think is pregnant). I tried to find it on their website but no such luck. Maybe someone else would be able to find itChat Icon

Posted 11/5/07 9:33 PM
 

dm24angel
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Re: I'm having a thought... re: babysitting....

Good Idea! I think Rachel Prncss actually had a thread going for a while....the moms helping moms one?

Posted 11/5/07 10:13 PM
 

yankinmanc
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Re: I'm having a thought... re: babysitting....

I am part of a babysitting circle, I can drag up the rules if you want. They are simple.

They are really simple and we use a token system and it works well. It costs 1 token for a normal babysitting session, and if you stay out after midnight it costs 2 tokens. You put your own child to bed, usually we all go out after bedtime. Also, we have incentives like a bottle of wine, food, good DVD's etc.

Its a great idea and its nice for people who don't have any family in town.

Posted 11/6/07 4:48 AM
 
 

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