I need help- please don't judge- I have three children - 6,4 and an 11 month old. The baby has never been a great sleeper. No schedule!!!!i put him in his crib and he cries and cries to the point he sweats and I give in. He doesnt nap on a schedule he will fall asleep with me bf or in the car. I need my bed back- granted it is nice to have him there so when he wakes up- yes he still wakes up once a night hungry - I can feed him and we go back to sleep- I am tired and I just need sleep but now I need to try to get him to be a sleeper- BTW- no pacifier or bottle;( someone please tell me what to do!!!