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"I Couldn't Work Here" - article written by a shelter worker

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Shanti
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"I Couldn't Work Here" - article written by a shelter worker

I Couldn't Work Here

When you say to an animal shelter or humane society employee "I could never do your job, it would break my heart. I love animals too much" or words to that effect, it sounds like you are saying:
1. That we don't also love the animals, even though we've taken minimum wage (or no wage) jobs in order to work with homeless animals. For many of us it is our life's work.
2. That we, somehow, don't get our hearts broken.
3. That in order to do this job one has to be either cold hearted or an animal hater.
Your declaration leaves us with some questions. If you can't do this job, who will? Someone must. When we've euthanized the 500th kitten for the month, because there are no homes available. Will you take the 501st? Our hearts are completely torn out and we just can't kill one more. You already have enough pets? We understand, we do too. Our cages are over capacity, our foster homes are all full. Do you have a solution? If so, please tell us, we hate this part of the job.

Right now, at this moment, there is a dog or a cat in a shelter employee's arms and there is nowhere on earth for this creature to go. There is no cage space, no foster home. No forever home... nowhere. It is a heartbreaking feeling.

There is a really nice yellow lab mix named Jake. He's 3 years old, healthy, housebroken, loves kids. He loves everyone! But, he can't find a home because he's quite generic looking, not really flashy and he's not an eight week old puppy. ("I want a dog to grow up with the kids"). We've had him there for 3 months, but can no longer justify taking up valuable cage space for a dog that's showing no signs of becoming adopted. What would you do?

There are 10 dogs that came in today. We have two open runs. Who has to die? Walking through the kennel, having to choose which ones have no more time is the worst part. It breaks our hearts. If you know of a way to keep Jake alive and still be fair to the other animals, please tell us. We've grown so attached... it's our hearts again, you know. They're breaking into a million pieces this time.

Will you talk to the woman who brings in a blind, 10 yr old peek-a-poo with bad skin and says, "Don't kill her! Find her a good home!" Oh puhleeeeze. We can't find homes for the healthy 1 year olds, who's going to adopt a 10 year old, unhealthy dog? You? No, not me either. I already have four dogs that were considered unadoptable. Because we can't get this owner to face reality and allow us to euthanize right away, the dog has to spend her last 24 hours on earth in a holding cage, wondering what happened. But, we held her as often as we could and tried to comfort her! It's quite unlikely that there is someone that wants an elderly dog that needs a few hundred dollars worth of veterinary care, but maybe you're right. Our crystal ball is broken, but if you think she can find a home and you want to save her, please go back to the kennel and pick which young healthy dog has to give up it's space here.

Ok. You can't work at an animal shelter. Not everyone can. Can you help in other ways? Can you buy us a bag of food when you buy for your own pet? Can you come in and talk to the cats? Walk the dogs? We are so busy running the place that we often don't have time. When you come back next week we won't tell you the final disposition of your favorite one if you don't want to know. We are, after all, a compassionate group and we understand about broken hearts. Could you go to your friend or neighbor and offer to get their pet spayed/neutered? Could you trap one of those stray cats in your neighborhood and get it vaccinated and neutered? That will be one more free-roaming cat that's out of the reproduction loop. Maybe you could just send a check to say "thank you". Anything at all would help.

I know you mean well. I know you mean to say, "I couldn't work here because my own emotions get in the way of doing what has to be done for the animals, thank you for doing it."
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Posted 5/26/08 10:11 AM
 
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twinkletoes807
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Re: "I Couldn't Work Here" - article written by a shelter worker

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I wish I had the means to open up my own shelter. Maybe someday. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/26/08 11:45 AM
 

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Re: "I Couldn't Work Here" - article written by a shelter worker

Posted by twinkletoes807

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I wish I had the means to open up my own shelter. Maybe someday. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Same here. This would totally be my philanthropic thing!

Posted 5/26/08 4:51 PM
 

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Re: "I Couldn't Work Here" - article written by a shelter worker

I admit it. I am one of those people who says, " I could never work here." and "How do you do it?". Because I can't even watch a commercial about dogs without crying. I cannot read anything about dogs or other animals being killed or hurt without crying. So. I do my part in other ways. I donate money to many animal shelters and organizations and my best friend and I physically walk supplies in to various shelters. And I thank and appreciate everyone who is strong enough to work there. I have told my DH I want to volunteer at a shelter and maybe do some rescues, and he just shakes his head as he knows as well as I do that I would not make it one day. Some people have the guts and the heart, I just don't. I wish I did. And I will continue to do my part as best as I can.

Posted 5/27/08 8:39 PM
 
 

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