I am so stressed out!!

Did you find it hard for your close family members to keep a secret?

I feel stressed! I am not 12 weeks yet and have only told a few close family members and close friends. My cousin who I work with knows I am pregnant. I said whatever you do please do not tell "Joe, who works with us."If you have to tell your husband please tell him not to tell him. She calls today, who did they tell "Joe". I don't want anyone to feel like they have to lie,but wouldn't "I don't know"be easy enough to say?!? I'm glad she called but I wish it was anyone else but him...lol

I don't know what to do, do I explain to him not to say anything when think that will be impossible for him to do or ignore it? I feel like I will walk in Monday and everyone will know. I was hoping it would be our news to share, when the time was right!!

Message edited 6/5/2006 7:24:13 AM.

Re: I am so stressed out!!

I know exactly how you feel....I'm only 6 wks and my parents already told their close boating friends.

I guess they are just happy for us...even though it is annoying that so many people know so early

Re: I am so stressed out!!

No one can keep a secret! We told a close friend and said shhh and we got an e-mail from someone else like the next morning. Someone else posted it in MySpace!

I have that nagging feeling even those that did say they kept quiet didn't.

You're probably pretty close to 12 weeks so try not to stress...

Re: I am so stressed out!!

I am getting close to 12 weeks, it will be soon enough for me to tell. I think I'm just a little sensitive or hormonal right now...lol. I know people are happy for us and they just want to tell the news..It's a hard secret to keep.

I really want to make sure my dh sisters find out thru us and not someone else. His one sister lives out of state and will be coming home in June. We wanted to tell them together in person. Thanks for your support!

Message edited 6/4/2006 2:06:09 PM.