How do you tell the difference

Between fear holding you back from making a life changing decision or the gut instinct you get telling you not to do something.


I've been going back and forth about a decision I need to make. And I'm not sure if it's that little voice inside my head also known as my gut instinct keeping me up at night telling me not to do it or the fear of the unknown.

Can you really tell the difference?

Re: How do you tell the difference

Is there someone else you can talk to about it? Sometimes that can help you put things into perspective.

Re: How do you tell the difference

For me I can usually tell the difference...at least in retrospect, but iut's hard to define. If I'm nervous because of the change or becuase I don't know what the future holds it's one thing, but if it's keeping me up at night,or ruining weekends or a vacation (as one decision did..I'm glad I decided agaisnt that change) it's probably not the right decision

Re: How do you tell the difference

Make a pro con list. Talking it out with someone and making a pro con list will be very helpful. Good luck.

Re: How do you tell the difference

I can't tell the difference either and it holds me up alot when making big decisions.