had my amnio today--updated w/ a question on bottom

So, yes, I decided to go ahead with it. I feel more like a weird feeling than any actual pain. They were so super duper careful when they did the test. I have fibroids and they measured them and pinpointed their exact locations to make sure they didn't hit one. It took quite a bit of time for them to figure out exactly where to put the needle. In the meantime, I was just looking at my baby. During the test, I only looked at the screen once b/c I just focused on my breathing. DH watched everything.

They tried to find out the baby's sex, but guess what? The baby had it's legs closed. We'll know soon enough.

When I went to bed last night, I was thinking of the families who have suffered losses due to amnio complications. What is important is that I made an informed decision and I can only hope that it was the right decision.

At this point, with my exam being finished, I have to ask that people with the comments such as "I would never have an amnio," put them elsewhere. I considered the entire range of opinions while I was deciding, but I don't want controversy while I am recovering. As it is, my mind wanders and I think of all of that anyway.

I'm also still suffering from morning sickness. I am glad that we are finding out the sex because I keep focusing on the idea that we will have news soon and that gets me through the bad days. As I said, we each make decisions based on what we think is best for ourselves (whether to find out the sex, what tests to have, etc.)!!!

I hope to report back tomorrow that I feel better and in about a week or two I hope I can say that everything is fine and I will tell you or .

If you read all of this, THANKS!!!!

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sounds like you made the decision that was right for you, glad to hear it. praying that everything turns out okay. and if you need to vent about morning sickness, i am always available - been there.

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I think all any of us can do is to try and make the best decisions for our own situations.

Praying that all turns out good!!

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No flames here- and if anyone has anything to say, I'LL kick em in the shins.....

The risks of amnio are even lower than previously reported. To me the piece of mind is totally worth it.

Glad it went well- can't wait to hear whether team Pink or Blue!!

ETA: I have some pretty large fibroids as well. They suck- big time

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You made a sound decision that you felt was best for yourself and your baby. No one can fault you for that, you gotta do what you feel is right. I hope it all comes back wonderful!

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I had an amnio. It was DH and I's choice.

Just make sure you rest .... I mean REALLY rest (feet up, etc...). They told me the 1st 24 hours were crucial.

I actually laid down for 3 days. I had some cramping (they had warned me) but everything was fine.

Drink LOTS of water.

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I'm glad you feel comfortable with your decision-you're very brave-I don't know if I could do it. Can't wait to hear the sex of the baby!

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I know you gave this decision much thought and you did what was best for you, DH and your child. No one should ever have comments against you doing whatever you feel is best for your family.

Please keep us posted when you get your results. I hope you are lying down in bed!

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I had an amnio and know what a tough informed decision it is. The advantage is that you will know the sex without any errors so you can go paint the nursery pink or blue.

I felt a little sore after mine but after a day or two of resting in bed I felt just fine afterwards.

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Glad everything went OK..

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Thanks everyone. Sorry if I was too harsh on anyone who is against this procedure. I just didn't feel that this is the time for me to argue and I knew that I would not just leave it alone if someone had a negative comment. I am resting okay. I haven't fallen asleep at all since I got home but I sort of wish I would.

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i had an amnio in feb and it was the best decision for us. our dr was also very safe but I am glad to be 100% certain.

the risk is very low and sometimes the peace of mind is worth it.

stay off your feet and rest for 2 days!!!

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I'm had the test this afternoon. I am off tomorrow. Should I stay home on Wed, too?

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If it were not for amnio, I wouldnt be here. I would never have been conceived at all. So you can imagine, I am all for it. I plan on having an amnio when I get pregnant too. There is no question about it. I too am informed and family history combined with my knowledge/work experience as well as my age gives me every reason to have one.

You and your DH made an informed decision for yourselves and should be able to live free from judgement. I hope you are able to rest comfortably as you wait for the results.

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Posted by smdl

Posted by ssdbk

I'm had the test this afternoon. I am off tomorrow. Should I stay home on Wed, too?

Yes.

Stay in bed, or on the sofa, with your feet up for 2 days.

You can go back on Thursday.

Re: had my amnio today--updated w/ a question on bottom

why would you get flamed..it is YOUR choice and YOUR decision to go ahead with this.
Glad it is over.....lots of hugs and hoep that m/s ends soon

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Im glad for you that its over.....and I think you are right to say , please dont say such and such. If we all could be more respectful of each others decisions , opinions, choices etc on here, it would be a better place....

Cant wait to hear the good news all is ok...

REST!

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glad it went well - looking forward to hearing if or

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Posted by dm24angel



Im glad for you that its over.....and I think you are right to say , please dont say such and such. If we all could be more respectful of each others decisions , opinions, choices etc on here, it would be a better place....

Cant wait to hear the good news all is ok...

REST!

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I don't think that anyone berated me while I was trying to decide, but there were some strong opinions. I wanted them at the time, because that was the time to hear those opinions. For today, I just didn't even want to have anyone say anything like, "Well, I would never have done it, but I hope it works okay for you." It could be a very innocent thing to say but I was not in shape for a statement like that today. I did feel that I needed to post and ask for the support that I get from telling you all what is happening. I guess I can be a little selfish about exactly what I want on the day of my amnio--and if the amnio debate were discussed on another thread today I would not have had an issue with it (maybe it was discussed, I only read a few things today).

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Glad everything went well. Take care of yourself.

BTW, my OB mentioned that the rates for amnios are affected by OBs performing the procedure who do not have experience and this is what affects the curve. So I am sure your procedure was safe and sound.

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Glad the test went well, definitely take it easy for 2 days resting up.






ETA- I agree with Dmangel- well said!

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