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Daisy32
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had breakdown at work
As many of you know I had my D&C this past Friday. Today at work someone caught me at the wrong moment and I went OFF on them. I felt so bad I called the person back right away and told her what happened hoping maybe she'd understand. Well she did and offered her sympathy... and I of course apologized profusley. Well everything is fine now but I cant take all this being fine one minute and breaking down the next. Maybe I came back to work too soon 
Message edited 7/16/2008 12:08:25 PM.
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SweetTooth
I'm a tired mommy!
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Re: had breakdown at work
its so hard. 
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| Posted 7/16/08 12:09 PM |
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MrsRbk
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Re: had breakdown at work
it's so hard. Can you take a couple of days off from work?
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| Posted 7/16/08 12:12 PM |
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leighdvm
My golden boys!
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Re: had breakdown at work
I'm sorry, Lisa....I had a similar situation with 2 girls at work recently.....A truly understanding person will understand what we are going through...
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| Posted 7/16/08 12:17 PM |
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Daisy32
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Re: had breakdown at work
Thanks girls. I found out I was definately gonna miscarry on Monday 7/7 and took the whole week off. So this Monday 7/14 was my first day back. But I'm kinda thinking I could have used a few more days. i just hate the fact that I'm fine one min and crying the next. I feel like such a "nut job".
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| Posted 7/16/08 12:28 PM |
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mrsmck
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Re: had breakdown at work
you're not a "nut job". These are all emotions that are normal and you are doing your best. Hang in there, some days are harder than others, but you can do it...
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| Posted 7/16/08 12:34 PM |
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MrsMessina
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| Posted 7/16/08 12:38 PM |
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BA2008
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Re: had breakdown at work
You need time, but maybe being at work is OK because it keeps you a little busy (if you can concentrate that is). I think being home might be worse. I know I'd start beating up on myself. How much bad TV can one watch? Or shopping? Don't be hard on yourself for feeling this way.
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| Posted 7/16/08 12:52 PM |
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MrsJoeG
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Re: had breakdown at work
I am so sorry you are going through this. Take as much time as you need for yourself.
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| Posted 7/16/08 12:55 PM |
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partyof6
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Re: had breakdown at work
I am sooooooooo sorry...
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| Posted 7/16/08 1:11 PM |
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IrishLasss334
I'll be there soon!
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Re: had breakdown at work
You are not a nut job! Whether anyone else around realizes it or not, losing a pregnacy is an emotionally draining ordeal that everyone deals with differently.
Please also remember your body is going through some hormonal changes as the pregnancy level drops in your body.
YOu will feel better soon, give yourself a little more time.
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| Posted 7/16/08 1:48 PM |
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LisaW
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Did I ever tell you that I hate people?
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Domino
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Re: had breakdown at work
hang in there
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| Posted 7/16/08 2:13 PM |
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karenk71
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Re: had breakdown at work
I'm sorry you are going through this.
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| Posted 7/16/08 2:55 PM |
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LaurenExp
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Re: had breakdown at work
Please don't make yourself crazy over that. You did the right thing, you called and apologized. If you don't have the time to take from work, just deal with it best you can and keep your head down as much as possible. Believe me, I know the feeling.
I'm so sorry you're going through this
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| Posted 7/16/08 3:44 PM |
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Daisy32
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Re: had breakdown at work
Thanks everyone for your support It means the world to me.
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| Posted 7/16/08 3:58 PM |
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mom2mgn
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Re: had breakdown at work
I don't think you went back to soon and I don't think you are nuts. It takes time. And no one can tell how much time. Everyone is different. Just give yourself all the time in the world you need and don't worry what anyone says or thinks.
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| Posted 7/16/08 5:05 PM |
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Gertyrae
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Re: had breakdown at work
I can't tell you how many times I've broken down at work.
Some days I have just left early cuz I couldn't stop crying.
Please don't think you are a nut job and don't worry about going back to work. It's something you have to do and you just try to get through it as best you can.
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| Posted 7/16/08 9:07 PM |
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babyquestion
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I am so sorry you're going through this
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| Posted 7/16/08 9:10 PM |
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Claud
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Posted by hoping-wishing
you're not a "nut job". These are all emotions that are normal and you are doing your best. Hang in there, some days are harder than others, but you can do it...
I agree. You are grieving and dealing with grief is not a "neat" process. It takes time, so try to be gentle with yourself. I am so sorry for what you are going through.
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