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Had a pity party weekend..

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CaseyGirl
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Jen - counting my blessings...

Had a pity party weekend..

So tired of this...tired of the lonelyness...tired of having 2 extra bedrooms that sit unoccupied...tired of seeing all the women younger than me with 2 kids and working on the 3rd...tired of seeing the woman my own age with an adorable little girl in AC Moore and they were having an awesome time picking out Halloween stuff....I just want to do all of that too....why can't I? Will I ever? This is how I spent my weekend.

Every year it's the same thing. The next year cannot be the same thing!!! It just can't!!! Chat Icon Every year just repeats itself like Groundhog Day. So tired of it.

Ok pity party over for now. Chat Icon

Posted 10/5/08 6:12 PM
 
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rose825
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Posted 10/5/08 7:43 PM
 

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Posted 10/5/08 7:43 PM
 

hoping-wishing
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Re: Had a pity party weekend..

Everyone is entitled to a bad day...or a few of them! Hope you can wake up to some sort of good news...

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Posted 10/5/08 8:02 PM
 

hopeandfaith75
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K

Re: Had a pity party weekend..

I totally understand how you feel! we have extra bedrooms too I thought they would be getting prepared for occupation by now but they aren'tChat Icon

I also feel bad when I see people on here having 2 or 3 kids before I even have one and with zero problems.

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Posted 10/5/08 8:08 PM
 

mojosmom
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Re: Had a pity party weekend..

Trust me you are not alone. We bought our house three years ago - four bedrooms. Two bedrooms connected by a Jack and Jill bathroom which I thought would be "perfect" for kids. Well, that hasn't happened.

In fact, we "may" be moving out of state for DH's job and I am sad that I never had kids in this house. It was so perfect.

I also understand how you feel that each year repeats itself. I was thinking this weekend that Halloween is hear again and the holidays and I thought things would be different this year but more of the same. It's tough and so unfair.

Posted 10/5/08 8:28 PM
 

-BabyMiracle-
When will my ship come in?

Member since 9/07

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J

Re: Had a pity party weekend..

I feel the same. I am just tired of the empty feeling already! It's like...when will it be my turn? Year after year I feel even worse.People younger than me having kid after kid....its just not fair. What makes them "better" than me? I don't get it but I hope our time comes soon.

Posted 10/5/08 8:42 PM
 

IrishLasss334
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Patty

Re: Had a pity party weekend..

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon You are not alone. I feel the same way with the same bedrooms empty. After 3 failed pregnancies and now 3 failed IUI's since the last m/c, it was a tough weekend.

I really pray there are better things to come for all of us.

Posted 10/5/08 9:10 PM
 
 

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