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Tina1117
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Member since 11/07 1447 total posts
Name: Tina
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Excited and Nervous...TTC #3
DH has been telling me he's getting a vasectomy. He would love a 3rd child but he thinks he's getting old (he'll only be 33) and he's worried about finances.
Anyway, the other day he told me that he'll make a deal with me. We can try until the end of the year to get pregnant and if it works then we'll have our #3 if not then he can get the vasectomy. He said this way we can say we tried and it didn't work.
I am so excited and nervous at the same time.
Not really sure if this belongs here but I needed to share with someone
Any advice from those with 3+...I'd love to hear it all.
DS#1 is 3yrs7mnths & DS#2 2yrs5mnths
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Posted 7/25/12 3:58 PM |
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Tina1117
LIF Adult

Member since 11/07 1447 total posts
Name: Tina
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3
113 views and no advice, well wishes...nothing
Anyone else think this board has change? It's not like it was 2-3 years ago. Oh well good luck to me!
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Posted 7/25/12 9:44 PM |
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juanvi
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3
Good Luck! I don't think 33 is getting old lol
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Posted 7/25/12 9:55 PM |
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Kate
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3
Good luck!
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Posted 7/25/12 9:56 PM |
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RSB34
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3
I want 3 but DH only wants 2. I'm slightly jealous! Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ETA: Reasoning is finances and his age- but he's 37! 33 is YOUNG!
Message edited 7/25/2012 10:05:46 PM.
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Posted 7/25/12 10:05 PM |
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Excited and Nervous...TTC #3
Good luck! I want another one, hell i want 10 more!
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Posted 7/25/12 10:13 PM |
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mamabear
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Excited and Nervous...TTC #3
Lots of luck!!!! My kids are a similar age to yours, and I'm hoping to be in a similar position to you soon!
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Posted 7/25/12 10:16 PM |
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apwmjc
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Name: Amy
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3
Good luck
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Posted 7/25/12 10:25 PM |
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Champ
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3
I just had my first at 33 twins!! god luck to you!!
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Posted 7/25/12 10:27 PM |
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imyself

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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3
My dh thought he was humoring me by saying we could try for #3. I'm due end of next month Good luck
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Posted 7/26/12 12:40 AM |
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Tina1117
LIF Adult

Member since 11/07 1447 total posts
Name: Tina
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3
Thank you ladies
I didn't mean to sound like a baby...
Yes I agree 33 is young...he can be a PITA He said lets try and I didn't think twice. Giddy Up!
Best of luck to you ladies too. I was just so shocked to hear him on board that I had to share. I guess all my nagging paid off.
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Posted 7/26/12 7:10 AM |
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bettybcafe
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Member since 7/07 8611 total posts
Name: M
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3
Posted by juanvi
Good Luck! I don't think 33 is getting old lol
Yeah, me neither esp. for a guy. My DH is 37 and wants 2 more kids. Best of luck to you!
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Posted 7/26/12 7:48 AM |
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maybebaby
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Member since 11/05 6870 total posts
Name: Maureen
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3
good luck to you!!! we are ttc #3 soon and i'm excited!!
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Posted 7/26/12 7:56 AM |
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DeniseMarie
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3
Thats so exciting! I hope to be able to try for #3 soon. Good luck!
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Posted 7/26/12 7:58 AM |
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KellyNYC
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Member since 10/05 650 total posts
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Excited and Nervous...TTC #3
33 is hardly old. I'd have him think twice about TTC for a mere 6 months before committing to an irreversible procedure. What if he has a change of heart in 5,10 years (which STILL wouldn't be old)?
In any case, that is so exciting, good luck!!!
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Posted 7/26/12 8:28 AM |
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tomcat
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3
not old at all. i had my first at 36, (dh was 34 :D )
have lots of fun ;) and good luck :)
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Posted 7/26/12 8:34 AM |
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Jodee
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Member since 11/08 1510 total posts
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Excited and Nervous...TTC #3
Good Luck to you! and yes 33 is NOT old :) I have 2, and often think how it would be to have 3, I have no advice - only well wishes :)
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Posted 7/26/12 8:35 AM |
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dgem
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Excited and Nervous...TTC #3
I just had # 3 at 35. To be honest with you the transition from 2-3 has by far been the easiest. My children are all 33-34 months a part. Good luck
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Posted 7/26/12 9:11 AM |
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mamasita27
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3
Posted by Tina1117
113 views and no advice, well wishes...nothing
Anyone else think this board has change? It's not like it was 2-3 years ago. Oh well good luck to me!
awww...just seeing your post now! Good luck to you! I'm on the fence about number 3 !
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Posted 7/26/12 9:16 AM |
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3under3
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3
I am 34 so is DH. We were on the fence about a 3rd and then surprise here we are!
Good luck!!!!
Your DH is not too old!!
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Posted 7/26/12 9:28 AM |
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Sparrow
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3
33 is old??? DH was 36 when we had #1, will be 38 with #2 and I hope to eventually go for a third.
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Posted 7/26/12 9:55 AM |
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ODonnell
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3
Good luck. I would love more and we were 1st-time parents at 43/45.
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Posted 7/26/12 10:22 AM |
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Tina1117
LIF Adult

Member since 11/07 1447 total posts
Name: Tina
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3
I do not think 33 is old...DH says he feel too old
I'd have more children later in life if I could...heck I wouldn't stop having them
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Posted 7/26/12 10:34 AM |
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maybesoon
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3
Good luck!. My dh wants # 3 soon , he is 31 and says he is old After you have # 3 then your dh can do the vasectomy
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Posted 7/26/12 10:54 AM |
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kahlua716
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3
How exciting!! Good Luck!
I hope I can get DH on board for #3 when I'm ready!
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Posted 7/26/12 10:59 AM |
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