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Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

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Tina1117
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Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

DH has been telling me he's getting a vasectomy. He would love a 3rd child but he thinks he's getting old (he'll only be 33) and he's worried about finances.

Anyway, the other day he told me that he'll make a deal with me. We can try until the end of the year to get pregnant and if it works then we'll have our #3 if not then he can get the vasectomy. He said this way we can say we tried and it didn't work.

I am so excited and nervous at the same time.

Not really sure if this belongs here but I needed to share with someone Chat Icon

Any advice from those with 3+...I'd love to hear it all.

DS#1 is 3yrs7mnths & DS#2 2yrs5mnths

Posted 7/25/12 3:58 PM
 
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Tina1117
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Tina

Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

113 views and no advice, well wishes...nothing Chat Icon

Anyone else think this board has change? It's not like it was 2-3 years ago. Oh well good luck to me!

Posted 7/25/12 9:44 PM
 

juanvi
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

Good Luck! I don't think 33 is getting old lol

Posted 7/25/12 9:55 PM
 

Kate
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

Good luck!

Posted 7/25/12 9:56 PM
 

RSB34
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

I want 3 but DH only wants 2. I'm slightly jealous! Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ETA: Reasoning is finances and his age- but he's 37! 33 is YOUNG!

Message edited 7/25/2012 10:05:46 PM.

Posted 7/25/12 10:05 PM
 

myboysmyheart
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K

Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

Good luck! I want another one, hell i want 10 more!

Posted 7/25/12 10:13 PM
 

mamabear
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Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

Lots of luck!!!! My kids are a similar age to yours, and I'm hoping to be in a similar position to you soon!

Posted 7/25/12 10:16 PM
 

apwmjc
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Amy

Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

Good luck Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/25/12 10:25 PM
 

Champ
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

I just had my first at 33 twins!! god luck to you!!

Posted 7/25/12 10:27 PM
 

imyself

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me

Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

My dh thought he was humoring me by saying we could try for #3. I'm due end of next month Chat Icon
Good luck Chat Icon

Posted 7/26/12 12:40 AM
 

Tina1117
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Tina

Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

Thank you ladies Chat Icon

I didn't mean to sound like a baby... Chat Icon

Yes I agree 33 is young...he can be a PITA Chat Icon He said lets try and I didn't think twice. Giddy Up! Chat Icon

Best of luck to you ladies too. I was just so shocked to hear him on board that I had to share. I guess all my nagging paid off.

Posted 7/26/12 7:10 AM
 

bettybcafe
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

Posted by juanvi

Good Luck! I don't think 33 is getting old lol



Yeah, me neither esp. for a guy. My DH is 37 and wants 2 more kids. Best of luck to you!Chat Icon

Posted 7/26/12 7:48 AM
 

maybebaby
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Maureen

Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

good luck to you!!! we are ttc #3 soon and i'm excited!!

Posted 7/26/12 7:56 AM
 

DeniseMarie
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

Thats so exciting! I hope to be able to try for #3 soon. Good luck!

Posted 7/26/12 7:58 AM
 

KellyNYC
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Kelly

Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

33 is hardly old. I'd have him think twice about TTC for a mere 6 months before committing to an irreversible procedure. What if he has a change of heart in 5,10 years (which STILL wouldn't be old)?

In any case, that is so exciting, good luck!!!

Posted 7/26/12 8:28 AM
 

tomcat
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

not old at all. i had my first at 36,
(dh was 34 :D )

have lots of fun ;) and good luck :)

Posted 7/26/12 8:34 AM
 

Jodee
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Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

Good Luck to you! and yes 33 is NOT old :) I have 2, and often think how it would be to have 3, I have no advice - only well wishes :)

Posted 7/26/12 8:35 AM
 

dgem
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Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

I just had # 3 at 35. To be honest with you the transition from 2-3 has by far been the easiest. My children are all 33-34 months a part. Good luck

Posted 7/26/12 9:11 AM
 

mamasita27
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

Posted by Tina1117

113 views and no advice, well wishes...nothing Chat Icon

Anyone else think this board has change? It's not like it was 2-3 years ago. Oh well good luck to me!



awww...just seeing your post now! Good luck to you! I'm on the fence about number 3 ! Chat Icon

Posted 7/26/12 9:16 AM
 

3under3
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

I am 34 so is DH.
We were on the fence about a 3rd and then surprise here we are!

Good luck!!!!

Your DH is not too old!!

Posted 7/26/12 9:28 AM
 

Sparrow
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

33 is old??? Chat Icon
DH was 36 when we had #1, will be 38 with #2 and I hope to eventually go for a third.

Posted 7/26/12 9:55 AM
 

ODonnell
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

Good luck. I would love more and we were 1st-time parents at 43/45.

Posted 7/26/12 10:22 AM
 

Tina1117
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Tina

Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

I do not think 33 is old...DH says he feel too old Chat Icon

I'd have more children later in life if I could...heck I wouldn't stop having them Chat Icon

Posted 7/26/12 10:34 AM
 

maybesoon
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Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

Good luck!. My dh wants # 3 soon , he is 31 and says he is old Chat Icon After you have # 3 then your dh can do the vasectomy

Posted 7/26/12 10:54 AM
 

kahlua716
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Keri

Re: Excited and Nervous...TTC #3

How exciting!! Good Luck!

I hope I can get DH on board for #3 when I'm ready!

Posted 7/26/12 10:59 AM
 
 

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