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Etiquette question

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nrthshgrl
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Etiquette question

If my kid hit your kid - and you're inviting us to your kid's birthday party --- do I get your kid a small gift bc our kids don't like each other or a bigger gift to mitigate damages?Chat Icon

Posted 5/4/06 11:28 PM
 
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Nancy
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Re: Etiquette question

I would get what I would normally get. Kids will be kids and you have to accept they do crazy things (either on the giving or receiving side.) I think if you addressed the situation immediately, that's what is important.

Posted 5/4/06 11:45 PM
 

4monkeys
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Re: Etiquette question

Posted by Nancy

I would get what I would normally get. Kids will be kids and you have to accept they do crazy things (either on the giving or receiving side.) I think if you addressed the situation immediately, that's what is important.




I totally agree with this. Was the situation taken care of ? Im sure it was, knowing you Chat Icon
As far as the party, I usually write the cards "from my kids" in kiddie handwriting, and make them scribble in them. maybe you can add, "Im sorry I hit you" Chat Icon if you wanted to address it, otherwise, dont even mention it... I guess it depends on how close you are and what the situation was.

Posted 5/5/06 8:16 AM
 

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Re: Etiquette question

go normal. But if your kids don't like each other...why are you going to the party?

Posted 5/5/06 9:14 AM
 

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Re: Etiquette question

I'm not sure what the proper etiquette is - I just know what I would do - and that is buy a BIG present.

Posted 5/5/06 9:16 AM
 

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Re: Etiquette question

Posted by btrflygrl

go normal. But if your kids don't like each other...why are you going to the party?



I agree.

Posted 5/5/06 9:17 AM
 

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Re: Etiquette question

Posted by nrthshgrl

If my kid hit your kid - and you're inviting us to your kid's birthday party --- do I get your kid a small gift bc our kids don't like each other or a bigger gift to mitigate damages?Chat Icon



Barbara, I got the jokeChat Icon Chat Icon I laughed out loud and the class coming into my room is looking at me as if I've finally lost it.

Depends, does the family have a lawyer on retainer?... PIMPChat Icon

Posted 5/5/06 10:24 AM
 

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Re: Etiquette question

Posted by Nancy

I would get what I would normally get. Kids will be kids and you have to accept they do crazy things (either on the giving or receiving side.) I think if you addressed the situation immediately, that's what is important.



I'm agreeing with Nancy! Gosh, if I had to buy a bigger gift everytime Andrew hit or bit another kid at a playdate, I'd be broke!

It happens. I always feel so bad when it happens and apologize profusely, but I do also know that Andrew has no inkling he's being wrong, at his age....

Posted 5/5/06 10:54 AM
 

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Re: Etiquette question

Posted by btrflygrl

go normal. But if your kids don't like each other...why are you going to the party?



I was wondering the same, is it your friend?

Posted 5/5/06 11:01 AM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Etiquette question

No, he's invited to a slew of birthday parties in the next 2 months ---and he's mean to them. Actually I was joking when I wrote it - sometimes my sense of humor doesn't translate well...Chat Icon

Posted 5/5/06 11:14 AM
 
 

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