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Do you ever buy a cocktail dress just b/c you love it

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cloddy
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Do you ever buy a cocktail dress just b/c you love it

Even if you don't have an event coming up? I am 8 mos post-partum with DC#3 so am at a place in life where it is difficult to find flattering dresses that fit. I found a gorgeous cocktail dress a few days ago that fit but didn't buy it b/c I was trying to be sensible/frugal since we have no weddings or formal events coming up. BUT, I have not stopped thinking it for days which kind of says to me that I should go back and get it, right? But is it silly to buy it when we don't have a need for it? The reason I'm asking is b/c is it $$ for me but I need to invest a little more for dresses now that fit has become more of an issue.

WWYD?

Posted 3/25/12 2:25 PM
 
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Irishlass
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Re: Do you ever buy a cocktail dress just b/c you love it

I would get it.

Posted 3/25/12 2:37 PM
 

Lannasmama
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Re: Do you ever buy a cocktail dress just b/c you love it

I'd get it too. You're better than me I would have bought it alreadyChat Icon

Posted 3/25/12 2:54 PM
 

Mtk1605
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Re: Do you ever buy a cocktail dress just b/c you love it

Guilty! I do it all th time :) Just do it!

Posted 3/25/12 2:54 PM
 

jlm2008
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Re: Do you ever buy a cocktail dress just b/c you love it

Absolutely! There will always be an occasion coming up, and I hate having to run out shopping at the last minute for a wedding etc, because it's hard to find anything. If you can do it, go for it!

Posted 3/25/12 4:01 PM
 

LisaW
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Re: Do you ever buy a cocktail dress just b/c you love it

<~~~~ has a closet full of dresses and nowhere to go Chat Icon

Posted 3/25/12 4:04 PM
 

MrsS6510
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Re: Do you ever buy a cocktail dress just b/c you love it

Yup! Actually, the post I put up with a picture of a green dress that I'm wearing to a wedding next week.......I bought that dress well over a year ago because it was on sale and I fell in love with it. I had nowhere to where it to, but then thought that two of our friends would get engaged soon and I could wear it to their wedding. Low and behold, that's whose wedding I'm wearing it to next week!! Chat Icon

Posted 3/25/12 4:24 PM
 

pinky
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Re: Do you ever buy a cocktail dress just b/c you love it

I would buy it!

Posted 3/25/12 6:18 PM
 

johnsae
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Re: Do you ever buy a cocktail dress just b/c you love it

I would definitely buy it! If it's rare to find something you really love, then I would get it.

Posted 3/25/12 8:22 PM
 

springchick
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Re: Do you ever buy a cocktail dress just b/c you love it

I try not to because by the time I get invited somewhere I dont like it anymore lol

Posted 3/25/12 8:28 PM
 

queensgal
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Re: Do you ever buy a cocktail dress just b/c you love it

When do you think realistically that you will be invited somewhere to go?


Or, can you and DH plan a special night to go out and wear it?

How trendy vs. classic is the dress?

If it is something pretty classic - little black dress - and you think you will eventually have something come up in the next year, go for it.

Otherwise, styles may change, your size/shape may change, or you may just grow tired of it before you wear it.

So I would look at it like that, I have bought dresses without a specific purpose but knew within a year I'd have a wedding to go to.

Posted 3/25/12 9:02 PM
 

PennyCat
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Re: Do you ever buy a cocktail dress just b/c you love it

Get it and tell your dh to take you out somewhere nice!Chat Icon I feel like there's always an anniversary or birthday coming up.. But regardless, who needs a reason to go out for a fancy romantic dinner? Declare valentines day in April... hire a babysitter... and go celebrate!!!

Maybe even make a little weekend out of it and go on a weekend getaway. Hmm this advice gives me some ideas Chat Icon

Message edited 3/26/2012 2:24:54 AM.

Posted 3/26/12 2:24 AM
 

cloddy
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Re: Do you ever buy a cocktail dress just b/c you love it

Went back and got it last night Chat Icon There will always be something.

Sales lady made me feel even better about the dress b/c she kept gushing about it while ringing me. She was so funny. "It's an Oleg Cassini" "That's the designer Nancy Reagan wore" etc You're getting such a great deal on it.

Posted 3/26/12 7:55 AM
 

MLSH1003
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Re: Do you ever buy a cocktail dress just b/c you love it

Glad you got it, if it was something you couldn't get off your mind, you should go for it, you only live once :)

I just bought a cocktail dress that I loved, I have no where to wear to yet but with coupons and certificates and in-store deals, I just got it for $4, I think I can swing that :)

Posted 3/26/12 9:01 AM
 

Diane
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Re: Do you ever buy a cocktail dress just b/c you love it

I did

Posted 3/26/12 10:49 AM
 

MarisaK
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Re: Do you ever buy a cocktail dress just b/c you love it

Sure - but the only reason I'd be trying it on is if it was a crazy sale to begin with -

No need to go trying on cocktail dresses w/o an event to go to - for me anyway .......I hate dress shopping !!!

Posted 3/26/12 10:53 AM
 

glinda-goodwitch
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Re: Do you ever buy a cocktail dress just b/c you love it

Posted by cloddy

Went back and got it last night Chat Icon There will always be something.

Sales lady made me feel even better about the dress b/c she kept gushing about it while ringing me. She was so funny. "It's an Oleg Cassini" "That's the designer Nancy Reagan wore" etc You're getting such a great deal on it.




Good! Otherwise you would have been thinking about it forever!! Can you post a pic? I'm dying to see it!!

Posted 3/26/12 11:27 AM
 

PearlJamChick
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Re: Do you ever buy a cocktail dress just b/c you love it

Posted by LisaW

<~~~~ has a closet full of dresses and nowhere to go Chat Icon



Ditt-to-the-o.

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Posted 3/26/12 12:51 PM
 

jilliibabii
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Re: Do you ever buy a cocktail dress just b/c you love it

Remember that dress I just posted about 2 weeks ago? That's the third dress I bought for the 2 weddings I have in Sept. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Go for it!

Posted 3/27/12 10:52 AM
 

cloddy
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Re: Do you ever buy a cocktail dress just b/c you love it

Posted by glinda-goodwitch

Posted by cloddy

Went back and got it last night Chat Icon There will always be something.

Sales lady made me feel even better about the dress b/c she kept gushing about it while ringing me. She was so funny. "It's an Oleg Cassini" "That's the designer Nancy Reagan wore" etc You're getting such a great deal on it.




Good! Otherwise you would have been thinking about it forever!! Can you post a pic? I'm dying to see it!!



I will try but I'm really bad at posting photos on LIF ever since we got an apple computer. I used to know how to do it easily on a PC. Mine are always too high res.

Posted 3/27/12 7:58 PM
 

cloddy
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Kristen

Re: Do you ever buy a cocktail dress just b/c you love it

found this online. It's the same dress but in B&W, mine is all silver which makes a big difference b/c i think it looks much nicer in silver. But this gives you the idea.

Oleg Cassini dress

Posted 3/27/12 8:02 PM
 
 

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