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MissJones
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Discipline/Rewards/Behavior Systems
Hello! I am trying to get some ideas together for my stepmother for the kids. Would you guys mind sharing your discipline tricks, rewards/behavior systerms and stuff like that? I have a few ideas for her but I'd love to gather more.
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Re: Discipline/Rewards/Behavior Systems
How old are they and what are the issues?
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| Posted 1/9/10 6:54 PM |
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MissJones
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Re: Discipline/Rewards/Behavior Systems
4 and 6
They are good kids, but they are kids. The issues are cleaning up after themselves, following directions and fighting with each other.
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| Posted 1/9/10 7:00 PM |
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Re: Discipline/Rewards/Behavior Systems
Posted by MissJones
4 and 6
They are good kids, but they are kids. The issues are cleaning up after themselves, following directions and fighting with each other.
so a reward system I think would be appropriate would outline those issues - what they can do vs. can't do:
1. I cleaned up after playing with my toys
2. I listened when (stepmom) told me to _______
3. I played nicely with my brother
4. I used my words instead of hitting
things like that
a sticker next to each item. After certain # of stickers they get to choose from a menu of rewards
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| Posted 1/9/10 7:20 PM |
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FranM
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Re: Discipline/Rewards/Behavior Systems
Posted by lipglossjunky73
Posted by MissJones
4 and 6
They are good kids, but they are kids. The issues are cleaning up after themselves, following directions and fighting with each other.
so a reward system I think would be appropriate would outline those issues - what they can do vs. can't do:
1. I cleaned up after playing with my toys
2. I listened when (stepmom) told me to _______
3. I played nicely with my brother
4. I used my words instead of hitting
things like that
a sticker next to each item. After certain # of stickers they get to choose from a menu of rewards
ITA -- Reward the GOOD Behavior. If the fighting is physical I would go with immediate Time Out or removal of something (TV, Game time etc.) expecially for the 6yo.
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| Posted 1/9/10 7:54 PM |
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MissJones
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Re: Discipline/Rewards/Behavior Systems
Posted by lipglossjunky73
1. I cleaned up after playing with my toys
2. I listened when (stepmom) told me to _______
3. I played nicely with my brother
4. I used my words instead of hitting
things like that
a sticker next to each item. After certain # of stickers they get to choose from a menu of rewards
These are good. Thanks Liza!
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| Posted 1/9/10 8:49 PM |
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