Didn't really try this month

I guess I was a bit depressed plus DH switched his work schedule to nights so we are trying to adjust.

I feel bad bc my OB stressed for me to try this month being that I had the hsg and supposedly fertile but just knowing my tube was blocked on the side I was O'ing really pissed me off. My RE's office is less than supportive and won't even consult with me until the end of the month. I guess I just needed this month off to gather my thoughts on all that is going on. We did BD on my O day but for fun. Just hoping next cycle will bring me more positivity.

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Sorry you had a tough month. Hoping the next one is much better for you!

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I know you've been having some misgivings about your RE... I wasn't able to follow every post about it, but I do remember you were upset about a bunch of things. I think if you feel your RE's office is not giving you the support you need, then leave. Go. There are so many REs out there that give you the best of both worlds with an AMAZING bedside manner AND brains. I was on this road a long time and I know it would absolutely not have been doable if not for my dh, LIF, and the support of Dr.B who I was with for so long (ultimately switched to Dr.T who I was just with briefly but he was just as amazing).. The RE .. the office.. they play a BIG role in your journey. It's important they provide you the best care both physically AND emotionally. You deserve it!!!!

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Posted by PennyCat

I know you've been having some misgivings about your RE... I wasn't able to follow every post about it, but I do remember you were upset about a bunch of things. I think if you feel your RE's office is not giving you the support you need, then leave. Go. There are so many REs out there that give you the best of both worlds with an AMAZING bedside manner AND brains. I was on this road a long time and I know it would absolutely not have been doable if not for my dh, LIF, and the support of Dr.B who I was with for so long (ultimately switched to Dr.T who I was just with briefly but he was just as amazing).. The RE .. the office.. they play a BIG role in your journey. It's important they provide you the best care both physically AND emotionally. You deserve it!!!!

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Posted by PennyCat

I know you've been having some misgivings about your RE... I wasn't able to follow every post about it, but I do remember you were upset about a bunch of things. I think if you feel your RE's office is not giving you the support you need, then leave. Go. There are so many REs out there that give you the best of both worlds with an AMAZING bedside manner AND brains. I was on this road a long time and I know it would absolutely not have been doable if not for my dh, LIF, and the support of Dr.B who I was with for so long (ultimately switched to Dr.T who I was just with briefly but he was just as amazing).. The RE .. the office.. they play a BIG role in your journey. It's important they provide you the best care both physically AND emotionally. You deserve it!!!!

Thank you! I went in there today expecting issues and the staff was very nice and able to fit me in next week to get the consult that I needed. I was surprised. I decided to do appts more in the afternoon or late am when I can see a Dr instead of the crazy 6:30am appts where I would have to deal with the NP only. Hoping next week goes better with them and I finally get answers!!

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Posted by Lillies

Posted by PennyCat

I know you've been having some misgivings about your RE... I wasn't able to follow every post about it, but I do remember you were upset about a bunch of things. I think if you feel your RE's office is not giving you the support you need, then leave. Go. There are so many REs out there that give you the best of both worlds with an AMAZING bedside manner AND brains. I was on this road a long time and I know it would absolutely not have been doable if not for my dh, LIF, and the support of Dr.B who I was with for so long (ultimately switched to Dr.T who I was just with briefly but he was just as amazing).. The RE .. the office.. they play a BIG role in your journey. It's important they provide you the best care both physically AND emotionally. You deserve it!!!!

Thank you! I went in there today expecting issues and the staff was very nice and able to fit me in next week to get the consult that I needed. I was surprised. I decided to do appts more in the afternoon or late am when I can see a Dr instead of the crazy 6:30am appts where I would have to deal with the NP only. Hoping next week goes better with them and I finally get answers!!

Ok good, I'm glad it went better!! Sometimes they have an off day/week.

You deserve the best of the best, and I believe you can have the best bedside manner AND medical care. I'm really glad you had a better experience this time!