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dh vent...ughhhhhhh

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NS1976
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dh vent...ughhhhhhh

My dh has been working nights. We hardly see each other and I thought tonight we would spend some much needed time together. Well he waits till 5 30 to tell me a bunch of the guys are going out with this other guy who is getting married next weekend. Of course he wants to go but first off why did he wait till now to tell me and why isnt spending quality time together as important to him???????

I told him to go but now hes punishing me and himself and saying hes not cause "i gave him attitude" ughhhhhhhhh..its not attitude about going out...its about how he handles things but he never realizes that! MEN!!!!!!!! Now I want him to go cause if he stays home, all we will do is fight....I think Id rather be working..how bad is that??????????

Posted 10/29/05 6:00 PM
 
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sunny
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Re: dh vent...ughhhhhhh

I hate that- I always just make him go because after that I would rather he leave anyway.

Posted 10/29/05 6:06 PM
 

NS1976
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Re: dh vent...ughhhhhhh

Thats exactly how I feel as well.

We will fight all night and I know hed rather be somewhere else..so I want him to GO! Now hes punishing me by staying home...UGH!

Posted 10/29/05 6:08 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: dh vent...ughhhhhhh

oh lordy...been there
and then you end up saying over and over go GOOOOOOOOOO

kinda ironic isn't..
that you end up forcing him to go to the place that you don't want him to go...

How he is the one who shold feel bad yet it ends up being you who feels bad Chat Icon

Posted 10/29/05 6:11 PM
 

NS1976
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Re: dh vent...ughhhhhhh

Exactly red!

Now I want him at the exact place we were fighting about before..I am forcing him to go just not to deal with the bs! UGH!!!!!

Posted 10/29/05 7:03 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: dh vent...ughhhhhhh

Posted by nycchic24

Exactly red!

Now I want him at the exact place we were fighting about before..I am forcing him to go just not to deal with the bs! UGH!!!!!

yup!
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Posted 10/29/05 7:07 PM
 

NS1976
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Re: dh vent...ughhhhhhh

Oh well..if he stays..I will just make his life a living hell! LOL

Posted 10/29/05 7:11 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: dh vent...ughhhhhhh

Posted by nycchic24

Oh well..if he stays..I will just make his life a living hell! LOL

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Posted 10/29/05 7:14 PM
 

NS1976
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Re: dh vent...ughhhhhhh

Im good at that Chat Icon

He should be scared...very afraid! LOL

Posted 10/29/05 7:15 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: dh vent...ughhhhhhh

Posted by nycchic24

Im good at that Chat Icon

He should be scared...very afraid! LOL



well serves him right for not giving proper notice!
PLUS with the added bonus that the reverse "well i am going to stay home then" psychology doesn't work! Chat Icon

Posted 10/29/05 7:18 PM
 
 

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