I'm wondering how you go about letting DC CIO if he/she takes a paci? DD is 5 1/2 months and really can't get the paci back into her mouth without some help. However, she really needs it to fall asleep. Do I just let her CIO w/out the paci once it falls out? Or do I have to go in and put it back in (sort of defeats the purpose of CIO, huh?!)?