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jcbrownie
LIF Adolescent
Member since 8/05 879 total posts
Name: jennifer
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BFN- I'm done
I received my bfn yesterday. I have been absolutely heartbroken ever since. It just makes me so sad and angry, that somewhere people who will abuse/neglect their children are getting pregnant while I cannot. I am really struggling with accepting that my journey is over.
Due to the emotional, physical, and financiall toll of ivf, we have decided not to go forward with it anymore.
I wish everyone on this board all the best. I truly hope that your dreams of becoming a mother will come true.
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Posted 3/10/10 7:57 AM |
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lululu
LIF Adult

Member since 7/05 9511 total posts
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Re: BFN- I'm done
So sorry.....
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Posted 3/10/10 8:07 AM |
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bride07
Ava Rose you are an angel!!!

Member since 3/09 6115 total posts
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Re: BFN- I'm done
I am so sorry!!!
Please don't give up HOPE!!! Miracles happen everyday.
Also, there are always other options like, adoption, foster to adopt, etc. I think many of us women struggling with TTC think about these other options.
I'm sorry, I know nothing any of us say with make things any easier. IT does just suck that some of us have to struggle to become mothers.
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Posted 3/10/10 8:12 AM |
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Daisy32
Mommy
Member since 2/08 8081 total posts
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Re: BFN- I'm done
I'm so sorry to hear this
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Posted 3/10/10 8:17 AM |
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skinny
3 boys and a princess!

Member since 11/08 8178 total posts
Name: Momma
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Re: BFN- I'm done
I'm so sorry!
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Posted 3/10/10 8:53 AM |
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lilbean
LIF Adolescent
Member since 1/10 634 total posts
Name: michelle
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Re: BFN- I'm done
awww.dont give up hope, how mamy have you done???
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Posted 3/10/10 8:58 AM |
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pp1107
LIF Adolescent

Member since 1/08 831 total posts
Name: P
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Re: BFN- I'm done
Im so sorry. It is so hard and so unfair.
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Posted 3/10/10 9:00 AM |
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smp123
Praying for the LOs!

Member since 1/09 1630 total posts
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Re: BFN- I'm done
i am so very sorry
Message edited 3/10/2010 9:01:43 AM.
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Posted 3/10/10 9:01 AM |
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A

Member since 7/05 32475 total posts
Name: Susan
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Re: BFN- I'm done
I understand. I'm so sorry.
Take time to regroup. Take care of yourself.
I wish you and your DH nothing but the best.
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Posted 3/10/10 10:21 AM |
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diva7531
My Peanut

Member since 2/07 5199 total posts
Name: Ryan 3 boys EDD 11/6!
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Re: BFN- I'm done
I am so sorry, hopefully one day you will be blessed with a miracle!
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Posted 3/10/10 10:48 AM |
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blustar214
So in love with my little girl

Member since 1/10 2471 total posts
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Re: BFN- I'm done
I'm so sorry.
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Posted 3/10/10 10:54 AM |
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ODonnell
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Member since 9/05 5983 total posts
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Re: BFN- I'm done
I'm so sorry. I know exactly what you are going through.
Take some time out before thinking about your other options. It is a very personal decision and not one that anyone can help you make.
I'm in the same boat and I'm here if you want to talk.
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Posted 3/10/10 11:50 AM |
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maybemommy10
Big Brothers to Be !

Member since 2/10 3868 total posts
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Re: BFN- I'm done
I am so very sorry to hear this news
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Posted 3/10/10 11:55 AM |
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MichiS101207
LIF Infant

Member since 4/08 175 total posts
Name: Michelle
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Re: BFN- I'm done
So sorry, have faith, hopefully one day you will be a miracle story
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Posted 3/10/10 12:15 PM |
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lbw
I am ONE !!!!!

Member since 5/07 1560 total posts
Name: Lisette
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Re: BFN- I'm done
I am truly sorry
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Posted 3/10/10 12:50 PM |
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ricaim
LIF Adult

Member since 8/09 1201 total posts
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Re: BFN- I'm done
I am so sorry. I wish you helath and happiness on your journey.
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Posted 3/10/10 2:31 PM |
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jw11897
LOVING LIFE

Member since 6/05 1433 total posts
Name: Jess
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Re: BFN- I'm done
I am so sorry
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Posted 3/10/10 5:15 PM |
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karenk71
Love

Member since 6/06 1547 total posts
Name: Karen
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Re: BFN- I'm done
I'm so sorry.
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Posted 3/10/10 5:27 PM |
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Re: BFN- I'm done
I'm so sorry for you. I do think you are very strong and brave for being able to come to terms with the end of your journey. I know that is not an easy decision to have to make. All the best to you and DH as you move forward. I hope life treats you better in the future.
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Posted 3/10/10 5:29 PM |
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Diana712
RIP my beloved Brother Richard

Member since 5/07 6710 total posts
Name: Diana
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Re: BFN- I'm done
I have posted this same grief on this board more than once.. for some reason i eneded up going for it again ... I found the money somehow.. Please if you ever change your mind we are all here waiting.. I was 43 when i finally got it .. i dont know how old you are .. I dont know any of your story ... i pray you find peace in your decision ... This is also not the only way to become a mommy..... Please trust in the Lord.. He will speak to your heart.. just be open.
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Posted 3/11/10 6:13 AM |
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JRsMaMa
LIF Adult

Member since 11/07 2044 total posts
Name: Jake's Mama
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Re: BFN- I'm done
I am so sorry!!!
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Posted 3/11/10 8:19 AM |
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july0105
My three little miracles

Member since 4/06 2628 total posts
Name: Alison
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Re: BFN- I'm done
I am so sorry. Take care of yourself...
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Posted 3/11/10 3:05 PM |
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