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BFN- I'm done

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jcbrownie
LIF Adolescent

Member since 8/05

879 total posts

Name:
jennifer

BFN- I'm done

I received my bfn yesterday. I have been absolutely heartbroken ever since. It just makes me so sad and angry, that somewhere people who will abuse/neglect their children are getting pregnant while I cannot. I am really struggling with accepting that my journey is over.

Due to the emotional, physical, and financiall toll of ivf, we have decided not to go forward with it anymore.

I wish everyone on this board all the best. I truly hope that your dreams of becoming a mother will come true.

Posted 3/10/10 7:57 AM
 
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lululu
LIF Adult

Member since 7/05

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Re: BFN- I'm done

So sorry..... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/10/10 8:07 AM
 

bride07
Ava Rose you are an angel!!!

Member since 3/09

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Re: BFN- I'm done



I am so sorry!!!
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Please don't give up HOPE!!! Miracles happen everyday.Chat Icon Chat Icon


Also, there are always other options like, adoption, foster to adopt, etc. I think many of us women struggling with TTC think about these other options.


I'm sorry, I know nothing any of us say with make things any easier. IT does just suck that some of us have to struggle to become mothers.

Posted 3/10/10 8:12 AM
 

Daisy32
Mommy

Member since 2/08

8081 total posts

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Re: BFN- I'm done

I'm so sorry to hear this Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/10/10 8:17 AM
 

skinny
3 boys and a princess!

Member since 11/08

8178 total posts

Name:
Momma

Re: BFN- I'm done

I'm so sorry!

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Posted 3/10/10 8:53 AM
 

lilbean
LIF Adolescent

Member since 1/10

634 total posts

Name:
michelle

Re: BFN- I'm done

awww.dont give up hope, how mamy have you done???Chat Icon

Posted 3/10/10 8:58 AM
 

pp1107
LIF Adolescent

Member since 1/08

831 total posts

Name:
P

Re: BFN- I'm done

Im so sorry. It is so hard and so unfair. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/10/10 9:00 AM
 

smp123
Praying for the LOs!

Member since 1/09

1630 total posts

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Re: BFN- I'm done

i am so very sorry Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 3/10/2010 9:01:43 AM.

Posted 3/10/10 9:01 AM
 

Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A

Member since 7/05

32475 total posts

Name:
Susan

Re: BFN- I'm done

I understand. I'm so sorry.

Take time to regroup. Take care of yourself.

I wish you and your DH nothing but the best.Chat Icon

Posted 3/10/10 10:21 AM
 

diva7531
My Peanut

Member since 2/07

5199 total posts

Name:
Ryan 3 boys EDD 11/6!

Re: BFN- I'm done

I am so sorry, hopefully one day you will be blessed with a miracle!

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Posted 3/10/10 10:48 AM
 

blustar214
So in love with my little girl

Member since 1/10

2471 total posts

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Re: BFN- I'm done

I'm so sorry.

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Posted 3/10/10 10:54 AM
 

ODonnell
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Member since 9/05

5983 total posts

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Re: BFN- I'm done

I'm so sorry. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I know exactly what you are going through.

Take some time out before thinking about your other options. It is a very personal decision and not one that anyone can help you make.

I'm in the same boat and I'm here if you want to talk.

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Posted 3/10/10 11:50 AM
 

maybemommy10
Big Brothers to Be !

Member since 2/10

3868 total posts

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Re: BFN- I'm done

I am so very sorry to hear this newsChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/10/10 11:55 AM
 

MichiS101207
LIF Infant

Member since 4/08

175 total posts

Name:
Michelle

Re: BFN- I'm done

So sorry, have faith, hopefully one day you will be a miracle story Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/10/10 12:15 PM
 

lbw
I am ONE !!!!!

Member since 5/07

1560 total posts

Name:
Lisette

Re: BFN- I'm done

I am truly sorry Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/10/10 12:50 PM
 

ricaim
LIF Adult

Member since 8/09

1201 total posts

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Re: BFN- I'm done

I am so sorry. I wish you helath and happiness on your journey.Chat Icon

Posted 3/10/10 2:31 PM
 

jw11897
LOVING LIFE

Member since 6/05

1433 total posts

Name:
Jess

Re: BFN- I'm done

I am so sorryChat Icon

Posted 3/10/10 5:15 PM
 

karenk71
Love

Member since 6/06

1547 total posts

Name:
Karen

Re: BFN- I'm done

I'm so sorry.
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Posted 3/10/10 5:27 PM
 

BaseballWidow
*****

Member since 8/08

6657 total posts

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Re: BFN- I'm done

I'm so sorry for you. I do think you are very strong and brave for being able to come to terms with the end of your journey. I know that is not an easy decision to have to make. All the best to you and DH as you move forward. I hope life treats you better in the future.

Posted 3/10/10 5:29 PM
 

Diana712
RIP my beloved Brother Richard

Member since 5/07

6710 total posts

Name:
Diana

Re: BFN- I'm done

I have posted this same grief on this board more than once.. for some reason i eneded up going for it again ... I found the money somehow.. Please if you ever change your mind we are all here waiting.. I was 43 when i finally got it .. i dont know how old you are .. I dont know any of your story ... i pray you find peace in your decision ... This is also not the only way to become a mommy..... Please trust in the Lord.. He will speak to your heart.. just be open. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/11/10 6:13 AM
 

JRsMaMa
LIF Adult

Member since 11/07

2044 total posts

Name:
Jake's Mama

Re: BFN- I'm done

I am so sorry!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/11/10 8:19 AM
 

july0105
My three little miracles

Member since 4/06

2628 total posts

Name:
Alison

Re: BFN- I'm done

I am so sorry. Take care of yourself...Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/11/10 3:05 PM
 
 

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