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MsSissy
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Another wedding question
When DH & I were planning our wedding we had the choice of 2 days. 1 happened to be his ex's birthday. We passed on that and choose the 2nd date available.
Well, I just found out my ex (we weren't married but dated for 8 yrs) is getting married on my birthday.
Would you get married on an ex's birthday?
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Posted 3/3/08 2:36 PM  |
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igottabeme
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Re: Another wedding question
for me it wouldnt really phase me. i've been with DH so long that i dont remember anything about any of my ex's that would ever remind me of them.
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| Posted 3/3/08 2:38 PM |
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Blu-ize
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Re: Another wedding question
wouldn't bother me.
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| Posted 3/3/08 2:41 PM |
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nferrandi
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Re: Another wedding question
I don't think it would even enter my thoughts.
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| Posted 3/3/08 2:41 PM |
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headoverheels
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Re: Another wedding question
i wouldn't choose to get married on my ex's birthday, but it wouldn't phase me if an ex got married on my birthday.
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| Posted 3/3/08 2:43 PM |
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nrthshgrl
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Re: Another wedding question
Depends on which ex.
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| Posted 3/3/08 2:45 PM |
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Christine
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Re: Another wedding question
Posted by nferrandi
I don't think it would even enter my thoughts.
It wouldn't occur to me either.
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| Posted 3/3/08 2:45 PM |
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evnme
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Re: Another wedding question
it wouldnt bother me- who cares about ex's bdays anymore?
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| Posted 3/3/08 2:49 PM |
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Lisa
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Re: Another wedding question
Posted by Christine
Posted by nferrandi
I don't think it would even enter my thoughts.
It wouldn't occur to me either.
me either!!
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| Posted 3/3/08 2:49 PM |
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MsSissy
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Re: Another wedding question
Posted by headoverheels
i wouldn't choose to get married on my ex's birthday, but it wouldn't phase me if an ex got married on my birthday.
Oh don't get me wrong, it doesn't phase me at all that he's getting married on my birthday.
I just meant in general, would you get married on an ex's birthday.
And not just for the bride. DH said right way, he didn't want the 1st date, b/c it was his ex's birthday. I would never have know it was her birthday if he didn't mention it. He didn't like the idea.
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| Posted 3/3/08 2:50 PM |
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Shelly
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Re: Another wedding question
Posted by nferrandi
I don't think it would even enter my thoughts.
me too.
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| Posted 3/3/08 2:51 PM |
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lvdolphins
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Re: Another wedding question
I don't even remember when my exes Bday is, therefore, it wouldn't bother me.
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| Posted 3/3/08 5:00 PM |
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KrisT
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Re: Another wedding question
Posted by lvdolphins
I don't even remember when my exes Bday is, therefore, it wouldn't bother me.
Same here!
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| Posted 3/3/08 5:06 PM |
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Chatham-Chick
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Re: Another wedding question
My ex's b-days were the furthest thing from my mind when picking out a wedding date. Then again, I'm not one for remembering birthdays. And I could have gotten married on my DH's ex-wife's b-day. I never bothered to ask, but something tells me he wouldn't be able to recall her b-day anyway. 
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| Posted 3/3/08 5:08 PM |
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MrsB-07
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Re: Another wedding question
Posted by igottabeme
for me it wouldnt really phase me. i've been with DH so long that i dont remember anything about any of my ex's that would ever remind me of them.
Same here - I don't remember any of their b-days
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| Posted 3/3/08 5:15 PM |
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islandersgirl74
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Re: Another wedding question
Id get married on my ex's birthday. Why let that stop me?
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| Posted 3/3/08 5:16 PM |
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bicosi
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Re: Another wedding question
It wouldn't even make me blink.
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| Posted 3/3/08 5:17 PM |
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JessInCA
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Re: Another wedding question
If it was a serious, long-term ex so whenever I think of that calendar date, I associate it with the ex's birthday, then no, I wouldn't want to get married on that day because of the negative connotation. Who wants their anniversary to be tainted by the memory of an ex?
But if I regarded it like any other day, didn't think about the ex, then I'd go ahead and get married then.
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| Posted 3/3/08 5:20 PM |
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MrsPJB2007
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Re: Another wedding question
i wouldn't really care much about it. i'm sure as time went on i'd probably forget that it was the ex's bday after many years of being happily married
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| Posted 3/3/08 5:34 PM |
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Christy359
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Re: Another wedding question
Wouldn't phase me.
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| Posted 3/3/08 6:22 PM |
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Re: Another wedding question
Could not care less what my ex does.
Me: I would not pick that day particularly but if it was the only day that worked then I would pick it.
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| Posted 3/3/08 6:24 PM |
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MrsM-6-7-08
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Re: Another wedding question
I was never in that position, but if i was and there were 2 dates available i would probably of picked the other one.
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| Posted 3/3/08 7:07 PM |
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