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Another Gift Spinoff Question!

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mrswask
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Michal

Another Gift Spinoff Question!

I am a guidance counselor and work in a dept with 5 other counselors and one director. We were discussing a group gift for the director and a few people decided they didn't want to spend $$ and go in on the gift.
Another co-worker/friend and I were discussing what to get the director and she suggested signing everyone's name to the card. I disagreed - my thoughts are why should I cover for other adults who are consciously choosing not to contribute - my DH is not working right now - why should I cover them?

It ended up that my friend and I just went in on and gift - the two of us.

Do you think I was wrong? What are your thoughts on this? Would you have covered people who didn't want to contribute?

Posted 12/19/07 6:47 PM
 
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Re: Another Gift Spinoff Question!

No, I wouldn't have put their names on it either. Unless they are just super cheap & cheesy--they probably don't want their names on the card, other wise they would have given you money. Perhaps they don't like the director, or feel wierd giving a gift to a superior.



Posted 12/19/07 6:50 PM
 

june262004
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Re: Another Gift Spinoff Question!

FLUCK NO...

Why should you pay and give them credit for it?

Posted 12/19/07 6:52 PM
 

CC0203
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Christina

Re: Another Gift Spinoff Question!

Nope, you are 100% right. If someone wants to contribute to the gift, so be it. However, there's no way you should "cover" for them and sign their names. You did the right thing Chat Icon

Posted 12/19/07 6:56 PM
 

Christine
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Re: Another Gift Spinoff Question!

No way would I put their name on the gift.

Posted 12/19/07 7:27 PM
 

butterfly20
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Re: Another Gift Spinoff Question!

never add them on.....

Posted 12/19/07 8:49 PM
 

LightUpOurLife
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Bonnie-Jean

Re: Another Gift Spinoff Question!

Posted by june262004

FLUCK NO...

Why should you pay and give them credit for it?



Couldn't have said it better!

Posted 12/19/07 8:53 PM
 
 

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