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All I can do is shake my head

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june262004
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Kristin

All I can do is shake my head

In 2004 right before our wedding my DH's grandparents bought his sister her husband and 4 kids a house in Florida. The house is amazing. It's in south florida. It has an inground pool with a hot tub 4 bedrooms 2 baths big kitchen with an island 2 family rooms dinning room. Grandpa paid cash for it.
SIL turned around took out a mortgage on the free house and bought a suburban a range rover and a new boat.

She calls just now and says she is going to sell her house and rent a town house cause she can't afford the house Chat Icon IT WAS FREE!!!!!!!!!!!!


So 6 people and 2 dogs are going to live in a town house Chat Icon


BTW I have no problem admitting I am bitter. She got a free house my BIL who has no kids not even a girlfriend got a free house and when we got married grandpa gave us a check that bounced. He ran out of money Chat Icon

Message edited 9/2/2007 4:44:10 PM.

Posted 9/2/07 3:31 PM
 
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Lauren

Re: All I can do is shake my head

I hate people like that.

They take things for granted and then rub it in. Chat Icon


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Posted 9/2/07 3:53 PM
 

Blu-ize
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Susan

Re: All I can do is shake my head

holy crap that blows!

Posted 9/2/07 3:54 PM
 

Phyl
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Posted 9/2/07 4:09 PM
 

PotofLuck06
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Re: All I can do is shake my head

That sux!!!!!!!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/2/07 4:13 PM
 

hayleyandsteveold
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Re: All I can do is shake my head

that stinks!Chat Icon

Posted 9/2/07 4:21 PM
 

preciouslove
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Re: All I can do is shake my head

That stinks...Chat Icon

Posted 9/2/07 4:41 PM
 

SweetestOfPeas
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Posted 9/2/07 4:42 PM
 

munchkinbugs
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Re: All I can do is shake my head

Wow. Chat Icon

Posted 9/2/07 5:00 PM
 

Beth
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Re: All I can do is shake my head

taxes in south flordia are 2% of your purchase price

and it sounds like she might not have the best money management skills

my brother was given a jaguar from my dad- and turn around and took a loan out on it- then goes around "pretending" he is rich and makes a ton of money (my Dad gave him the car - b/c he was suppose to give my Dad the money every month- and after 6 months and no payments- my Dad decided that he didn't want to deal with it anymore- I would have taken the car back- my Dad signs it over- he is way too nice)

but the point is- giving things to people like that - doesn't do them any good- they continue to have poor money management skills and will never learn

Posted 9/2/07 6:51 PM
 

MrsT
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Re: All I can do is shake my head

some people are just a waste of skin Chat Icon

a former friend filed bankruptcy in June and has over $400K in debt (an NO REAL ESTATE or vehicles listed)Chat Icon And it seems as though she is planning to run up $10K in plastic surgery bills the second her bankrupcty case is done.Chat Icon

Posted 9/2/07 7:10 PM
 

MommyofG
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Re: All I can do is shake my head

Did he really run out of money?

Posted 9/2/07 9:59 PM
 

june262004
But I love the Snow!

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Kristin

Re: All I can do is shake my head

Posted by MommyofG

Did he really run out of money?




I guess. He sure didn't help us out... Her house was 350k and my bil house was 200;

Posted 9/2/07 10:17 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Posted 9/2/07 11:27 PM
 

babymakes3
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Re: All I can do is shake my head

Wow. That sucks.. for her. I sure as heck wouldn't have abused the opportunity for a free house like she did.

Posted 9/3/07 12:01 AM
 

Mommy2Boys
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C

Re: All I can do is shake my head

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Instead of selling the house and losing what your grandfather gave them, did they ever thinking of selling the cars and boat?

Posted 9/3/07 12:07 AM
 

alnem
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Emily

Re: All I can do is shake my head

i hate to say it, but with 4 kids she shouldnt have been thinking so selfishly. if she was gonna take out a mortgage, she should have put the money into some kind of interest earning account instead of buying a boat. s ucks for her, but now she's learned her lesson.

Message edited 9/3/2007 12:15:50 AM.

Posted 9/3/07 12:15 AM
 

MrsT
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Katrina

Re: All I can do is shake my head

Posted by june262004


BTW I have no problem admitting I am bitter. She got a free house my BIL who has no kids not even a girlfriend got a free house and when we got married grandpa gave us a check that bounced. He ran out of money Chat Icon



And what exactly is he to live off ofChat Icon That is so strange, to give away his money to the point of bouncing a check.

Posted 9/3/07 12:18 AM
 

PeasandCarrots

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L

Re: All I can do is shake my head

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I don't mean to laugh but "he ran out of money" That just cracked me up. I'm so sorry you got the short end of the stick but atleast what you have is yours and NO ONE can take it away from you or make you feel like you owe what you have to them.

Posted 9/3/07 12:40 AM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: All I can do is shake my head

Posted by alnem

i hate to say it, but with 4 kids she shouldnt have been thinking so selfishly. if she was gonna take out a mortgage, she should have put the money into some kind of interest earning account instead of buying a boat. s ucks for her, but now she's learned her lesson.




ITA but would add that I doubt she's learned her lesson. Most people that act that foolishly rarely learn their lesson - it's about what other people did or didn't do for them.Chat Icon

Posted 9/3/07 8:43 AM
 
 

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