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prunepie
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jennifer
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a year ago tomorrow was a horrible day....
and cant shake the feeling. please dont read if losses upset you.
on march 11thlast year i had a d&c because i lost my pregnancy through a missed miscarriage.
and now this march 11th i am attending a childbirth class and i am 8 months pregnant.
i think subconsciously i have been veryyyyy anxious this week. even though it was a totally different time/week/month i lost the baby...i keep feeling the willies.
i had horrible nightmares last night and was a ravvvving biotch to my dh.
i feel so close to having this little boy but still so far away that i keep freaking myself out.
i had to share because i dont knwo what else to do. so grateful to be here now...but what an insane year it has been
ty for listening
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bettybcafe
Big brother in the making
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Re: a year ago tomorrow was a horrible day....
I can relate...I would have had my baby on Jan. 8 but had a MC...it was a hard day and I still have moments of sadness. Like, Im super happy Im pregnant and going to have a baby next month but I always wonder "what if" and think about the baby I lost  It will get easier though..its totally normal to feel anxious, sad and all sorts of emotions.
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| Posted 3/10/12 7:17 PM |
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Alexandra17
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Re: a year ago tomorrow was a horrible day....
 
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| Posted 3/10/12 7:24 PM |
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MammaPajama
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Re: a year ago tomorrow was a horrible day....
8/25/09 would have been my due date with the m/c I had.....it's crazy to think I would have had a 2 year old and be pregnant with my 2nd child right now instead of my 1st. I just keep telling myself this is all how it was supposed to be......I think the time in between the m/c and now allowed me to accept that. I remind myself that my mother miscarried in between having my older sister and me, so if things would have been different, perhaps I wouldn't be here. Take it easy this week, it's hard at the 1 year mark thinking about what might have been. I think the blessing of your little one will help you heal
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| Posted 3/10/12 7:34 PM |
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mooshyboo
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MrsKelly
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Re: a year ago tomorrow was a horrible day....
I can relate as well... i miscarried at 9 weeks in august. My due date would have been 2 days ago im only 8 weeks pregnant now - i have a looong road ahead of me.
'Everything happens for a reason' doesnt make the loss any easier, but its true. When you meet your LO next month that will all make sense. If it happened any other way, this little boy wouldnt be exactly who he is
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| Posted 3/10/12 7:58 PM |
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butterfly20
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Re: a year ago tomorrow was a horrible day....
never forgotten.... it was horrible. But I think it really helped us appreciate the future children so much more - you don't take things for granted so much.
Message edited 3/10/2012 9:27:06 PM.
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| Posted 3/10/12 9:26 PM |
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PennyCat
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Re: a year ago tomorrow was a horrible day....
crashing .. just to say.. you came a long way and have so much to be excited for!! A year makes a world of difference!!
I actually passed my due date from my first baby twice already and not currently pregnant.. You are VERY lucky! 
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| Posted 3/10/12 10:05 PM |
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prunepie
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jennifer
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Re: a year ago tomorrow was a horrible day....
thanks ladies...i so appreciate this now...but still freak out that something bad could happen still
i just didnt think the anniversary would bug me much at all considering i am preg now....but it is what it is...thanks all for understanding ...and for those with previous losses... my heart goes out to you too!!! oxoxo
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| Posted 3/10/12 10:43 PM |
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MrsSx2
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Re: a year ago tomorrow was a horrible day....
Just wanted to send you some
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Googlybear
i got a mama's boy!!
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Re: a year ago tomorrow was a horrible day....
i hear you all as well. Sept 25 2011i would have beendue. I wouldnt be pregnant now, and id have a 1+ year old. I cant imagine how my life would have beendifferent. I am so grateful that i am carrying a healthy babycurrently. Hugs to all of you!! we all deserve these little bundles.. and cantwait till all of us are holding them in our arms.. Keep ya heads up!!
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| Posted 3/11/12 9:33 AM |
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Melbernai
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Re: a year ago tomorrow was a horrible day....
Sending you big hugs
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| Posted 3/11/12 10:54 AM |
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hopingforbaby
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