yesterday my SIL asked me what my husband and I were doing for Christmas..I told her I did not know ..But now that I think about it she was inviting me over ..I guess that would be rude if I tell her I will be going to my mothers. Its just that her house is SO UNBELIEVABLY LOUD that I really don't think that I could do it! The thought of going there is making me panic because I know DH cant handle the volume either and he just slips away and goes to sleep on the couch.