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Giannas-mamaHappy Birthday baby girl!!
 
 Member since 5/05 1663 total posts Name:Nicole
 | Please tell me if I am wrong... We booked Gianna's bday party over 3 weeks ago for 1/28 (her bday is 1/25) my MIL called me on Wed. saying they booked a trip to go visit DH's uncle in FL from 1/22-2/1 and they did not relize they would be gone for Gianna's Bday nad Bday party. They asked if we could call the place where we are having the party so we can change the date. ARE YOU FRIGGIN KIDDING ME!?!?!?! I told DH NO WAY!!! He wants to call and see if we can change the date...their is no way I will do this...they booked their tickets over 2 weeks after they knew we booked the party...I told him I would rather cancel the party all together rather than change the date...they should change their date not me!! Please tell me if I over if I am wrong...I am so pi$$ed that they would ask me to change the date and I am so pi$$ed at DH that he would even cosider this  | 
			| Posted 12/27/05 10:23 AM   | 
	
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MelToddJuliaLove my Family!
 
 Member since 7/05 29064 total posts Name:Mel
 | Re: Please tell me if I am wrong... You are totally not wrong! They should change their date, they knew about her party. It would not be fair to you. Its your daughters birthday, its more important then going to visit an uncle in florida! JMO | 
			| Posted 12/27/05 10:38 AM   | 
	
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iffer0423735 weeks till I'm a big sister
 
 Member since 5/05 2642 total posts Name:Jennifer
 | Re: Please tell me if I am wrong... If they  knew about hte  party  first then they  should  cancel the trip  and  how  can they  ask you  to  change the  date when you sent out  invites to  people  and  are having a  nice  b-day party do they  not realize that you would  have to call  all these  people and tell them that the  party is  changed.  I dont' think your  over reacting at  all 
 I would  keep the  date  and tell them that you  had  called and you can't  change  the date
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			| Posted 12/27/05 10:42 AM   | 
	
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05mommy09Family of 5!
 Member since 5/05 15364 total posts Name:<3 Mommy <3
 | Re: Please tell me if I am wrong... You wouldnt catch me changing the date...thats for damn sure!!!
 Why do IL's always think its about them????
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			| Posted 12/27/05 10:42 AM   | 
	
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curley999Family!
 Member since 5/05 2314 total posts Name:
 | Re: Please tell me if I am wrong... OMG how rude of them. First of all how can they forget her birthday and book a trip during that week, You should NOT change the date, it is up to them to change their plans or just not come! | 
			| Posted 12/27/05 2:18 PM   | 
	
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Stefanie♥
 
 Member since 5/05 23599 total posts Name:Stefanie
 | Re: Please tell me if I am wrong... Do NOT change the date.  They knew when it was...  | 
			| Posted 12/27/05 2:26 PM   | 
	
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Samlove
 Member since 5/05 4729 total posts Name:Shari
 | Re: Please tell me if I am wrong... I would not change the date.  Let them change their airline tickets.  This is their granddaughters party.  excuse my language but screw them.  I remember my son's first b-day party - I inlaws wanted to leave before cake so they can go to a stupid temple fuction.  My mom told them off saying this is your grandchild his 1st birthday only happends once temple is ther all the time. | 
			| Posted 12/27/05 2:32 PM   | 
	
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iffer0423735 weeks till I'm a big sister
 
 Member since 5/05 2642 total posts Name:Jennifer
 | Re: Please tell me if I am wrong... Posted by Samlove
 I would not change the date.  Let them change their airline tickets.  This is their granddaughters party.  excuse my language but screw them.  I remember my son's first b-day party - I inlaws wanted to leave before cake so they can go to a stupid temple fuction.  My mom told them off saying this is your grandchild his 1st birthday only happends once temple is ther all the time.
 
 
 My inlaws  did the  same thing  not  only  DH  mother and  step dad  but his  family that  showed up  which was  his  mother  stepdad  sister  and her hubby and  their  daughter   the rest of the  family  told us they were going to come and  never even  showed up
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			| Posted 12/27/05 4:40 PM   | 
	
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