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pharmcat2000 
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 Need BTDT info regarding delivery-maybe TMI 
Is there anything that should be done to get ready to give birth, as far as shaving/waxing, etc are concerned?  Sorry if this is an embarassing question, but any knowledge or advice would be appreciated.  I just want do what will make for the best delivery & recovery without the risk of infection. 
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			Posted 2/11/06 1:51 AM    | 
	
	
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Stefanie 
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 Re: Need BTDT info regarding delivery-maybe TMI 
Well, I shaved everything before I went to the hospital...in fact, my water broke and then I proceeded to get into the shower and "clean up" before I had to go to the hospital. 
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			Posted 2/11/06 8:19 AM    | 
	
	
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Calla 
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 Re: Need BTDT info regarding delivery-maybe TMI 
There is no medical need to do anything.  Do what will make you most comfortable. 
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			Posted 2/11/06 8:22 AM    | 
	
	
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Eireann 
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 Re: Need BTDT info regarding delivery-maybe TMI 
I think in the "old days" they used to shave you before delivery, but I don't believe they do that anymore.  I tried to keep groomed on  a regular basis, but you know how it is...nearly impossible with the belly.  I guess just do the best you can for dignity's sake (hehehe!) but I don't think infection is a concern. 
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			Posted 2/11/06 8:40 AM    | 
	
	
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btrflygrl 
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 Re: Need BTDT info regarding delivery-maybe TMI 
I was induced, so I shaved that morning.  I wanted to wax but I was afraid that it would be more sensitive down therre and hurt more than it normally does.
  Also, you can massage the perineal area to help avoid an episiotomy/tearing.  I did not do this, but a friend of mine did with all 3 of her PG and I know she did not tear or get cut with the first 2. 
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			Posted 2/11/06 10:07 AM    | 
	
	
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nrthshgrl 
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 Re: Need BTDT info regarding delivery-maybe TMI 
I couldn't see a damn thing for the shaving part so I did the best I could right before I headed to the hospital.
  The next day I was clean as a whistle.  
  I agree on the perineal massages - I didn't do it either.  Other than the IV, the worst part of my delivery was the stitches afterward.  
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			Posted 2/11/06 11:17 AM    | 
	
	
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steph4777 
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 Re: Need BTDT info regarding delivery-maybe TMI 
I didn't shave down there....I just made sure it was tidy.  I'm sure there is little risk for infection.
  
Message edited 2/11/2006 11:32:09 AM. 
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			Posted 2/11/06 11:30 AM    | 
	
	
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sunny 
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 Re: Need BTDT info regarding delivery-maybe TMI 
I got in the shower and shaved as soon as I realized I was in labor. 
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			Posted 2/11/06 11:36 AM    | 
	
	
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jcndd 
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 Re: Need BTDT info regarding delivery-maybe TMI 
I waxed 2 weeks before my due date 
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			Posted 2/11/06 1:27 PM    | 
	
	
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Disneygirl 
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 Re: Need BTDT info regarding delivery-maybe TMI 
I'm an L&D nurse and the only time we care is if you need a c-section.  If there is a lot of hair where they need to make the incision then we might shave it. 
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			Posted 2/11/06 1:41 PM    | 
	
	
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JRG71 
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 Re: Need BTDT info regarding delivery-maybe TMI 
Posted by Stefanie
  Well, I shaved everything before I went to the hospital...in fact, my water broke and then I proceeded to get into the shower and "clean up" before I had to go to the hospital. 
 
 
  LOL! I did the same thing. 
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			Posted 2/11/06 1:52 PM    | 
	
	
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jersee3380 
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 Re: Need BTDT info regarding delivery-maybe TMI 
Posted by btrflygrl
  Also, you can massage the perineal area to help avoid an episiotomy/tearing.  I did not do this, but a friend of mine did with all 3 of her PG and I know she did not tear or get cut with the first 2. 
 
 
  this might sound stupid, but when would you start doing this? like, how long before delivery?
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			Posted 2/11/06 8:15 PM    | 
	
	
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emilain 
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 Re: Need BTDT info regarding delivery-maybe TMI 
Posted by jersee3380
 
 Posted by btrflygrl
  Also, you can massage the perineal area to help avoid an episiotomy/tearing.  I did not do this, but a friend of mine did with all 3 of her PG and I know she did not tear or get cut with the first 2. 
 
 
  this might sound stupid, but when would you start doing this? like, how long before delivery? 
 
  2 months befire is ideal, I also shaved completely, and that is alwasy when my hubby knows that I have a feeling that labor wil begin soon. Each time I shaved the day before I gave birth and each time my hubby said "so I guess we're going to the hospital tomorrow!"
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			Posted 2/11/06 8:19 PM    | 
	
	
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