40 weeks and 2 cm...

This kid doesn't want to come out!

I was somewhat disappointed with todays doctor visit. She said things didn't seem "imminent" and it could be another week.

For some reason, I always felt I'd go early. Like a week early, so in my head, I'm already a week behind!

Now a week isn't so long, but I'm just tired of waiting, and tired of answering the same questions everyday from everyone.

I DON'T want to be induced, so I'm ok with waiting, its just exhausting...(and yet at the same time I feel so unprepared for what will come next, that I don't want to rush things)

(ok, vent over)

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Oh Lisa - I know soooooo well how you are feeling. It is sooooo frustrating

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It stinks waiting. I was five days late and everyone asks you the same questions every time the phone rings. I remember how annoying it was!

I hope your little one makes his/her arrival soon!


I didn't want to be induced either. I was dead set against it and was so happy my son decided I went to labor on my own.

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Sorry you still have to wait Lisa! I'm jealous - 2 cm is looking pretty good to me right now.

Hang in there!

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Gee, and I thought you were due earlier. I guess I didn't help matters.

Maybe this kid wants to be born a Cancer instead of Gemini

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The day before my son was born I was only 1 cm dialated and my doc said that things weren't "imminent" either and even spoke about induction. Well at midnight I had my first contraction and had my son at 5:59 that evening. So you NEVER know Lisa. I'm sending you tons and tons of labor vibes.

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my cervix was completely shut at 39 weeks, my sugars were dropping (i had GD) and positioning was downish but not engaged...

we went in to get her. i was against induction and my dr. stated it was a good thing we did what we did as there was no way that my 8 pounder positioned the way she was would come out of my tiny little frame successfully!

hang in there, good luck!

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Lisa - I was thinking about you. Glad to hear an update. Hope your week flies by!! If it makes you feel any better - I was 0 cm and showing no signs about 3 days before my water broke. I was still 0 cm when my water broke.

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thanks girls!

Denise & Marcela - your stories definitely made me feel better!

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Posted by Marcie

Oh Lisa - I know soooooo well how you are feeling. It is sooooo frustrating

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LABOR VIBES to you, Lisa !

I remember the feeling, and these days are not the most fun

You'll be holding that little bundle really really soon!!

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Labor Vibes!

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I'm here with you kiddo !!!

I had a big presentation at work today - and after last week's appt I didn't think I'd be there for it.

Dr. says I am 4cm BUT haven't had a single contraction yet......... Basically I've been told it could happen ANY MINUTE.....

It's going to be a long, hot weekend.....

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Posted by Kate07

I'm here with you kiddo !!!

It's going to be a long, hot weekend.....

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Posted by -Lisa-

Posted by Marcie

Oh Lisa - I know soooooo well how you are feeling. It is sooooo frustrating

Marcie - I'm hoping not to beat your record

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Natural Ways to Induce Labor

If the medical methods of jump starting labor sound a bit off putting, there are a number of home remedies for inducing labor naturally when you are past your due date. But remember: none of these remedies will start labor unless you have already begun to dilate. However, some methods can help you to tone and soften your uterus.

1. Eat spicy foods or pineapple.

2. Go for a walk or march up some stairs.
This is thought to bring on labor because of the pressure of the baby’s head pressing down on your cervix. At the very least, walking can help get your baby into a better position for labor.

3. Have sex. A favorite for many pregnant women, sex can help by releasing a hormone called oxytocin, which causes the uterus to contract. Additionally, semen contains a substance known as prostaglandins, which will help soften the cervix.

4. Nipple stimulation. For those who find sex just too uncomfortable right now, nipple stimulation may be a better choice. It helps to bring on labor in much the same way sex does, by releasing oxytocin. However, this method may take a bit more effort than sex to start labor.

5. Stretching of the uterine opening membranes. This can be done by your doctor or midwife and has been found to increase the chances of labor starting within 48 hours.

6. Complementary therapies. Acupuncture, massage, teas, herbs and homeopathic remedies can be helpful when it comes to inducing labor. However, make sure you go to a licensed practitioner who has experience treating pregnant women.

One home remedy that is often recommended to pregnant women is castor oil taken either alone or with orange juice. While some women swear by this method, many experts and women who have tried it will strongly advise you against it. Castor oil may or may not bring on labor but it will definitely make you nauseous , cause you to vomit , have diarrhea and suffer severe cramps so just steer clear of this home remedy.

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Your post reminds me of myself with my first pregnancy with Luke. My due date came and went and I was sure he'd never come out. I was barely 1 cm dialated at my 40 weeks, 3 days pregnant OB appt. 2 days later I went into labor and had him. Hang in there, its not unusual to not seem like you will be having the baby anytime soon and then it happens... Soon enough you'll be holding your sweet baby.

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I am sending a TON of labor vibes your way!

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