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2 y/o + babu due in 30 days + funeral 2 hours away...

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MrsBurtch525
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Taryn

2 y/o + babu due in 30 days + funeral 2 hours away...

What would you do? DH's grandfather passed away yesterday after a 5 month battle with brain cancer. He was very important to DH and a big part of his life. He isn't handling the passing well. Everyone is asking if Lauren and I will go, she is a very active 2 year old and am afraid she will distract at the service and I know she will not sit still plus I am due in 30 days with a baby boy and he has already threatened to come twice. I have an OB appointment Thursday but the services are 2 hours away.....WWYD? I want to be there but not sure what I should do....

Posted 7/25/11 10:17 AM
 
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Re: 2 y/o + babu due in 30 days + funeral 2 hours away...

After reading about your issues, I'd say no. Too far away, IMO.

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Posted 7/25/11 10:19 AM
 

HomeIsWithU
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Re: 2 y/o + babu due in 30 days + funeral 2 hours away...

I would tell DH to go but I would stay behind with DD.

Posted 7/25/11 11:43 AM
 

MrsO
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Re: 2 y/o + babu due in 30 days + funeral 2 hours away...

I would go - is there anyone that could watch your daughther so she wouldn't have to go.

Posted 7/25/11 11:51 AM
 

jlk51496
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Re: 2 y/o + babu due in 30 days + funeral 2 hours away...

I would DEF go.but maybe bring someone along to help you with your DD

Posted 7/25/11 11:54 AM
 

Calla
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Re: 2 y/o + babu due in 30 days + funeral 2 hours away...

I would go and bring someone from my family along to help with the 2 y/o in case she has to be taken out of the service.

Posted 7/25/11 11:58 AM
 

ARIELSMOM
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Re: 2 y/o + babu due in 30 days + funeral 2 hours away...

Id ask DH what he wants, if he needs you there for support, than id go. If he is understanding of the circumstances and doesnt mind you not being there, than stay. people know that 2yo kids arent going to sit still, and sometimes kids lighten the mood at services, so it might not be too bad.

Posted 7/25/11 12:23 PM
 

ruby
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Re: 2 y/o + babu due in 30 days + funeral 2 hours away...

Posted by ARIELSMOM

Id ask DH what he wants, if he needs you there for support, than id go. If he is understanding of the circumstances and doesnt mind you not being there, than stay. people know that 2yo kids arent going to sit still, and sometimes kids lighten the mood at services, so it might not be too bad.



This, i would try my hardest to be there.

Posted 7/25/11 12:27 PM
 
 

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