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Secrets

No, because I couldn't imagine spilling a friend's secret. I'm not sure why you want to tell people so badly? She will surely be judged and probably feels guilty that she feels this way.

I also don't think it's that odd to miss your old life and I've always felt like any woman who insists that they never think about their pre-kids self and their "life didn't begin until they had kids" are either lying or had a snoozefest of a life.

I miss being able to travel and wander through museums and have my a$$ fit into a bandage dress. It doesn't mean I don't love my DD, it just means I had a life before her and that life wasn't subpar because I didn't know her yet. She doesn't make the person I was before her an illusion.