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LIRascal
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Opinions on bday gift 4yo boy
DD's are invited to a bday party for a classmate. Moms of little boys, how would you feel about a kit that helps DS raise caterpillars and watch them hatch into butterflies? + a gift card... I saw it at MIL's job, and I thought it was cooler than a toy but hey I'm such a nerd so... 
If no, then what should I buy? Remember I'm buying for twins, so like $40-$50
Eta: link to the kit
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Hoping4baby
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Opinions on bday gift 4yo boy
I bought this for my niece years ago and she loooooved it. I have a 4 year old boy and I think he would love this too.
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BsMomma2014
Fly high little one
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Opinions on bday gift 4yo boy
I don't have a 4 yo DS yet but I would be totally fine with this gift. As long as it doesn't make a mess it is a good gift in my book
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| Posted 4/1/16 8:01 AM |
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Momma2015
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Re: Opinions on bday gift 4yo boy
I love it! But then again I'm a nerd, too.
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| Posted 4/1/16 8:25 AM |
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LSP2005
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Re: Opinions on bday gift 4yo boy
I would not want that in my house. I love science kits, but I don't like bugs in my house. Outside only please.
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| Posted 4/1/16 8:33 AM |
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ChristinaM128
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Re: Opinions on bday gift 4yo boy
Unless you know the family well and know they wouldn't mind, I'd probably not get this. It's different to give it to a nephew whose parents you know, but personally I'd be a little bothered if a stranger got this (I just have daughters but I don't think it matters). And im a science nerd!
There's tons of other science kits out there (growing crystals, microscopes, etc.), or you can look into koala crates. They have a sister box (forgetting the name) that's about engineering. Or maybe a nice Lego set as a joined gift.
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JDubs
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Re: Opinions on bday gift 4yo boy
Posted by LSP2005
I would not want that in my house. I love science kits, but I don't like bugs in my house. Outside only please.
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MaZz
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Re: Opinions on bday gift 4yo boy
Posted by ChristinaM128
Unless you know the family well and know they wouldn't mind, I'd probably not get this. It's different to give it to a nephew whose parents you know, but personally I'd be a little bothered if a stranger got this (I just have daughters but I don't think it matters). And im a science nerd!
There's tons of other science kits out there (growing crystals, microscopes, etc.), or you can look into koala crates. They have a sister box (forgetting the name) that's about engineering. Or maybe a nice Lego set as a joined gift.
I wouldnt think twice to get for a "stranger" or a relative. I think it's a really cool gift! dont overthink... It's better than some random toy that they won't learn anything from.
I actually just purchased an "adventure bug kit" for a 4 yo boy. They can suck up bugs and look at them through a container. My dd (also almost 4) saw it and now wants it for her bday! I love that it's something that gets them outside and learning about nature.
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| Posted 4/1/16 9:38 AM |
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klsnyc805
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Re: Opinions on bday gift 4yo boy
I have an almost 4 year old boy...this is so cool and unique!!
It looks like it's sealed pretty well so I wouldn't worry about bugs being in the house per se.
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| Posted 4/1/16 11:43 AM |
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FirstMate
My lil cowboy
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Re: Opinions on bday gift 4yo boy
If you can do it outside, I would let my son have that. He would love it.
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PregowithTwins
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Opinions on bday gift 4yo boy
I agree dont get it. I did the catterpillar thing & don't want to do it again, it grossed me out.
What about an experience gift card.?
Adventureland, white post farms etc
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ChristinaM128
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Re: Opinions on bday gift 4yo boy
Posted by MaZz
Posted by ChristinaM128
Unless you know the family well and know they wouldn't mind, I'd probably not get this. It's different to give it to a nephew whose parents you know, but personally I'd be a little bothered if a stranger got this (I just have daughters but I don't think it matters). And im a science nerd!
There's tons of other science kits out there (growing crystals, microscopes, etc.), or you can look into koala crates. They have a sister box (forgetting the name) that's about engineering. Or maybe a nice Lego set as a joined gift.
I wouldnt think twice to get for a "stranger" or a relative. I think it's a really cool gift! dont overthink... It's better than some random toy that they won't learn anything from.
I actually just purchased an "adventure bug kit" for a 4 yo boy. They can suck up bugs and look at them through a container. My dd (also almost 4) saw it and now wants it for her bday! I love that it's something that gets them outside and learning about nature.
I think there's a huge difference between buying someone a kit to directly cultivate insects and a kit to foster exploration of what's already in your backyard.
And people's responses here are case in point that there is a difference between getting this for a stranger and someone you know... There's a few people grossed out by the thought. How do you know where this particular family would fall unless you know them well?
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MaZz
* Lovin my baby girl!!! *
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Re: Opinions on bday gift 4yo boy
Posted by ChristinaM128
Posted by MaZz
Posted by ChristinaM128
Unless you know the family well and know they wouldn't mind, I'd probably not get this. It's different to give it to a nephew whose parents you know, but personally I'd be a little bothered if a stranger got this (I just have daughters but I don't think it matters). And im a science nerd!
There's tons of other science kits out there (growing crystals, microscopes, etc.), or you can look into koala crates. They have a sister box (forgetting the name) that's about engineering. Or maybe a nice Lego set as a joined gift.
I wouldnt think twice to get for a "stranger" or a relative. I think it's a really cool gift! dont overthink... It's better than some random toy that they won't learn anything from.
I actually just purchased an "adventure bug kit" for a 4 yo boy. They can suck up bugs and look at them through a container. My dd (also almost 4) saw it and now wants it for her bday! I love that it's something that gets them outside and learning about nature.
I think there's a huge difference between buying someone a kit to directly cultivate insects and a kit to foster exploration of what's already in your backyard.
And people's responses here are case in point that there is a difference between getting this for a stranger and someone you know... There's a few people grossed out by the thought. How do you know where this particular family would fall unless you know them well?
From what I understand of the habitat, the caterpillars don't have to come with it. There is a voucher to send away for them when you are ready... Or if it's not your thing, then feel free to regift 
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nycgirl
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Re: Opinions on bday gift 4yo boy
Posted by MaZz
Posted by ChristinaM128
Posted by MaZz
Posted by ChristinaM128
Unless you know the family well and know they wouldn't mind, I'd probably not get this. It's different to give it to a nephew whose parents you know, but personally I'd be a little bothered if a stranger got this (I just have daughters but I don't think it matters). And im a science nerd!
There's tons of other science kits out there (growing crystals, microscopes, etc.), or you can look into koala crates. They have a sister box (forgetting the name) that's about engineering. Or maybe a nice Lego set as a joined gift.
I wouldnt think twice to get for a "stranger" or a relative. I think it's a really cool gift! dont overthink... It's better than some random toy that they won't learn anything from.
I actually just purchased an "adventure bug kit" for a 4 yo boy. They can suck up bugs and look at them through a container. My dd (also almost 4) saw it and now wants it for her bday! I love that it's something that gets them outside and learning about nature.
I think there's a huge difference between buying someone a kit to directly cultivate insects and a kit to foster exploration of what's already in your backyard.
And people's responses here are case in point that there is a difference between getting this for a stranger and someone you know... There's a few people grossed out by the thought. How do you know where this particular family would fall unless you know them well?
From what I understand of the habitat, the caterpillars don't have to come with it. There is a voucher to send away for them when you are ready... Or if it's not your thing, then feel free to regift
This is correct. Only thing is the kit is $15 and then the person has to spend $8-15 to have the caterpillars delivered (so it's kind of a gift that forces people to pay). I just got one for ourselves & my sister. I just told her yesterday that I'd pay for bug shipping. The kids (2-6) can't wait to get it started & I love the fact that you release the butterflies! A 4 year old boy will LOVE it.
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