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on the verge of a breakdown.....

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meganNbobby
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on the verge of a breakdown.....

okay i know i am not the only who feels this why but i cant help but to think i am....

i feel soo misreable all the time wether it's morning sickness or just exhaustion... i feel somtimes this should have happened at this time in my life... we are completely ready and sooo happy about this pregnancy... however i feel soooo guilty i am feel so unhappy lately about it because i feel sooo miserable all the time.... i love this baby and love to tell people i am pregant but when i feel misreable its SOOOOO hard to be happy. I am having a difficault time with work since i havent been working all that much... my schedule is open i work when i want to work but it's soo hard to work 8 hours when you feel soooo miserable and they are noticing that.... so i am stressing about everything.... i know it's completely normal to feel this why but i just feel sooo guilty about not being totally happy because i feel sooo miserable pretty much all the time.....

sorry i just needed to get it all out!!

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Posted 10/2/06 4:39 PM
 
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Donna

Re: on the verge of a breakdown.....

i was definately in your shoes a few months ago. i was so upset b/c i was so sick and i felt like i was not enjoying being pregnant at all. then one day during week 16 i woke up and felt like a million bucks. just like that i was fine after being so sick. it will all be worth it in the long run...

hang in there - it will get better!!!


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Posted 10/2/06 4:43 PM
 

angelbear217
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Lisa

Re: on the verge of a breakdown.....

I felt the same as you at your stage. Although you are happy about the baby you feel like absolute garbage and wonder if all this was worth it. Once the MS goes away and you are into your 2nd trimester you WILL feel differently. Hang in there!Chat Icon

Posted 10/2/06 4:45 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Posted 10/2/06 4:55 PM
 

MrsJ
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Re: on the verge of a breakdown.....

I'm sorry its been so hard for you. Don't beat yourself up over it, it will pass and you will feel better! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/2/06 5:13 PM
 

reggie
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Re: on the verge of a breakdown.....

Exercise is really helping me. Both yoga and walking are great to try.

If you decide to workout, please talk to your dr first.Chat Icon

Posted 10/2/06 5:23 PM
 

FeliciaDP

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Mommy

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Posted 10/2/06 6:03 PM
 

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lisa

Re: on the verge of a breakdown.....

Posted by meganNbobby

okay i know i am not the only who feels this why but i cant help but to think i am....

i feel soo misreable all the time wether it's morning sickness or just exhaustion... i feel somtimes this should have happened at this time in my life... we are completely ready and sooo happy about this pregnancy... however i feel soooo guilty i am feel so unhappy lately about it because i feel sooo miserable all the time.... i love this baby and love to tell people i am pregant but when i feel misreable its SOOOOO hard to be happy. I am having a difficault time with work since i havent been working all that much... my schedule is open i work when i want to work but it's soo hard to work 8 hours when you feel soooo miserable and they are noticing that.... so i am stressing about everything.... i know it's completely normal to feel this why but i just feel sooo guilty about not being totally happy because i feel sooo miserable pretty much all the time.....

sorry i just needed to get it all out!!

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I am currently going through this now ... I cry everyday and then throw up .. cry then throw up .. I have something called Hypermesis (sp) so the MS is morning noon and night...for me and it is enough to drive you mad.. I am just hoping it gets better as they say... I currently moved.. work is being affected but I just grin and bear it .. I hope it does get better for ya..I have to believe it does... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon


The feeling guilty part I feel it to but to be hinest its hard to be happy when you spend most of your days in the toilet or garbage can ...

Posted 10/3/06 9:22 AM
 

skygirl
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Erica

Re: on the verge of a breakdown.....

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Posted 10/3/06 9:28 AM
 
 

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