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Babywish2
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Moms of 2 lo's?!
Did you have a bit of guilt becoming pregnant a second time? My first dc has been my one and only for so long; I feel almost guilty for bringing another lo into the world. I'm Afraid she'll feel left out, feel slighted and upset. I know jealousy is only normal in the beginning, but I can't shake this feeling. Don't get me wrong, dh and I are ecstatic to give her a sibling but lately I feel bad. I hope she never thinks I'm trying to replace her.
How did you ladies deal?
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Posted 5/6/14 12:22 PM  |
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DiamondGirl
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Re: Moms of 2 lo's?!
I am currently pregnant w my 2nd and I feel the same way but I remind myself that a sibling is the greatest gift you can give your DC 
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| Posted 5/6/14 12:30 PM |
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jams92
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Re: Moms of 2 lo's?!
Posted by DiamondGirl
I am currently pregnant w my 2nd and I feel the same way but I remind myself that a sibling is the greatest gift you can give your DC
ITA
i still go through times of terrible guilt (im 38 weeks today). i feel guilty that dd1 wont get my full attention and i also feel guilty that #2 wont get my full attention either. but having a sibling is amazing and worth it
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| Posted 5/6/14 12:36 PM |
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islandersgirl74
Love Being A Mommy!
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Michelle
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Re: Moms of 2 lo's?!
DH and I are both older in age and don't plan on having any more children. If we were younger we definitely would and I know I would totally feel the same way as you.
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| Posted 5/6/14 12:58 PM |
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jennyal
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Re: Moms of 2 lo's?!
we're on baby #3  , DS#1 was 21m was DS#2 was born, i thought it was good we got some alone time with DS #1 but now its good that they can keep each other company and play together!
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| Posted 5/6/14 1:29 PM |
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Samira0407
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Moms of 2 lo's?!
When I found out I was expecting #2; other than from the shock; I cried thinking about my DS #1. i didn't want him to feel jipped; I have been able to give him all my attention his whole life. I didn't want him to feel like he had to share me. Everyone told me it was normal to feel that way. He'll have a sibling that he can play with.
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| Posted 5/6/14 3:08 PM |
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Samira0407
Love being a Mom
Member since 6/08 4030 total posts
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Moms of 2 lo's?!
When I found out I was expecting #2; other than from the shock; I cried thinking about my DS #1. i didn't want him to feel jipped; I have been able to give him all my attention his whole life. I didn't want him to feel like he had to share me. Everyone told me it was normal to feel that way. He'll have a sibling that he can play with.
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| Posted 5/6/14 3:08 PM |
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