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KroertGS
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So over people's comments

Someone at work just walked up to me and a group of three of my other coworkers and told me that she predicts I will have a c section. Wtf? Who says that? One, that's not any of your business! Two, thanks a$$hole!

Message edited 1/17/2014 2:38:32 PM.

Posted 1/17/14 2:29 PM
 
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Snoopy36
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Caille

Re: So over people's comments

people really need to take a class on pregnancy etiquette!! this time around i'm getting so many more RUDE comments than i did the first time around and i want to slap them all in the face!!

i cant tell you how many times i've gotten "are you sure there arent 2 in there??" no, theres just one but thanks for making me feel like a huge beached whale

Posted 1/17/14 2:34 PM
 

Nic1229
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Nicole

Re: So over people's comments

Posted by Snoopy36

people really need to take a class on pregnancy etiquette!! this time around i'm getting so many more RUDE comments than i did the first time around and i want to slap them all in the face!!

i cant tell you how many times i've gotten "are you sure there arent 2 in there??" no, theres just one but thanks for making me feel like a huge beached whale



Ugh the one's regarding size are the worst.. Just bc someone's pregnant doesn't mean we stop being sensitive about size/weight. I love those..
My bump has like doubled in size the past 2 weeks.. (between week 20 & 22) so for some reason the last few days everyone has felt it necessary and acceptable to tell me how "i popped" .. like I didn't notice.. but then my favorite was "wow you got huge out of no where".. We should be allowed to hit people.

Posted 1/17/14 3:02 PM
 

Pinkisles
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Re: So over people's comments

Posted by KroertGS

Someone at work just walked up to me and a group of three of my other coworkers and told me that she predicts I will have a c section. Wtf? Who says that? One, that's not any of your business! Two, thanks a$$hole!



are they aware that you want to have a drug free natural birth and just saying it to be bitchy?? That is so rude, I can't stand people.

Posted 1/17/14 3:07 PM
 

Pinkisles
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Re: So over people's comments

Posted by Nic1229



Ugh the one's regarding size are the worst.. Just bc someone's pregnant doesn't mean we stop being sensitive about size/weight. I love those..
My bump has like doubled in size the past 2 weeks.. (between week 20 & 22) so for some reason the last few days everyone has felt it necessary and acceptable to tell me how "i popped" .. like I didn't notice.. but then my favorite was "wow you got huge out of no where".. We should be allowed to hit people.



I hate the word popped. My rude sales rep said to me "Oh you finally look pregnant, you popped"

I wanted to pop her one right in the face.

Posted 1/17/14 3:08 PM
 

KroertGS
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Re: So over people's comments

Posted by Pinkisles

Posted by KroertGS

Someone at work just walked up to me and a group of three of my other coworkers and told me that she predicts I will have a c section. Wtf? Who says that? One, that's not any of your business! Two, thanks a$$hole!



are they aware that you want to have a drug free natural birth and just saying it to be bitchy?? That is so rude, I can't stand people.



She's not aware of that. She said that I am narrow and the baby won't fit through my hips. When did my vagina and hip size become anyone else's business???! And the way she said it had an undertone of "poor thing..."

My response was, "Noo...I don't like that...that's bad energy...that's not what I'm focusing on." I mean, of course I understand it is a possibility in the event of an emergency but come on! About 15 minutes later, she wrote me an e-mail apologizing. I said thank you.

Message edited 1/17/2014 3:34:25 PM.

Posted 1/17/14 3:31 PM
 

Denise
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Denise

So over people's comments

People have no filter!! Good for you planning to go drug free and natural!

Posted 1/17/14 3:33 PM
 

KroertGS
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Re: So over people's comments

Message edited 1/17/2014 3:39:07 PM.

Posted 1/17/14 3:36 PM
 

steph7308
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Re: So over people's comments

Posted by KroertGS

Posted by Pinkisles

Posted by KroertGS

Someone at work just walked up to me and a group of three of my other coworkers and told me that she predicts I will have a c section. Wtf? Who says that? One, that's not any of your business! Two, thanks a$$hole!



are they aware that you want to have a drug free natural birth and just saying it to be bitchy?? That is so rude, I can't stand people.



She's not aware of that. She said that I am narrow and the baby won't fit through my hips. When did my vagina and hip size become anyone else's business???! And the way she said it had an undertone of "poor thing..."

My response was, "Noo...I don't like that...that's bad energy...that's not what I'm focusing on." I mean, of course I understand it is a possibility in the event of an emergency but come on! About 15 minutes later, she wrote me an e-mail apologizing. I said thank you.



Being narrow dosnt mean anything. When I was younger I had xrays on my hips and the tech told me there was no way I'd fit a baby thru my hips. Well I just gave birth vaginally for the second time. Unless your a Dr people should keep their mouths shut.

Posted 1/17/14 4:14 PM
 

PitterPatter11
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So over people's comments

People have no filter when it comes to pregnant women! Someone commented on how I looked A LOT more pregnant the other day and that gravity was starting to take affect. Thanks....

Posted 1/17/14 6:59 PM
 
 

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