DS is 3.5 - he's been potty trained since last September and the last month he's been waking up dry and sometimes waking up to go to the bathroom. Thing is - I'm trying to teach him to go potty BEFORE bed, so that he may not need to wake up. Most of the time he does, but some nights he's just really stubborn and refuses to try. Any advice? I mean I just let it go but in my moment of frustration I mistakenly said - well, don't wake mommy if you have to pee!