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btrflygrl
me and baby #3!
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Message edited 9/9/2006 9:49:30 PM.
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Eireann
Two ladies and a gentleman!
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Re: Can I ask a wedding related (guest point of view) question?
I would go to the wedding, because frankly, I probably wouldn't want her to be there anyway. I know that probably sounds terrible, but I'd be looking forward to drinking and hanging out adult-style!
Also, aside from our nephews, I did not invite any family members' children to my wedding.
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KPtoys
I'm getting old
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Karen
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Re: Can I ask a wedding related (guest point of view) question?
I think it depends. I would find out before I sent the RSVP back if we could all come. If it was a local wedding and I had someone to babysit with no problems I would go but if it was something where it would turn into a big hassel I would say thanks but no thanks.
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BaroqueMama
Chase is one!
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Re: Can I ask a wedding related (guest point of view) question?
I would totally go to the wedding. Honestly, even if Ava were invited, I wouldn't take her. I would not want to spend my whole night taking care of her. Just being honest. I would rather leave her with someone and go and enjoy myself.
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btrflygrl
me and baby #3!
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Shana
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Re: Can I ask a wedding related (guest point of view) question?
Message edited 9/9/2006 9:49:48 PM.
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BaroqueMama
Chase is one!
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Re: Can I ask a wedding related (guest point of view) question?
Hmm, well, immediate family, I can't imagine why Ava wouldn't be welcome. However, I think I would bring her maybe for a very short time, then arrange for SIL or someone to come pick her up for the remainder of the evening.
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Calla
My girls
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Re: Can I ask a wedding related (guest point of view) question?
I think that it is entirely reasonable for someone not to want any babies or toddlers at a wedding.
I would go without my child if that is what my family member wanted.
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| Posted 9/9/06 9:40 PM |
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Diana1215
Living on a prayer!!!
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Diana
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Re: Can I ask a wedding related (guest point of view) question?
I gave my family (we have about 12 kids under 5) if they wanted to bring their children. Some did and some didn't.
Being that it's immediate family I would just ask them if you can bring her. I'm sure they wouldn't mind. Maybe they were thinking that you would want a night out?
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