What part of secret don't you get?

So I'm almost 10w. Been spotting for like 6, had a few scares and I'm still not out of the woods. So, we decided to tell mom,dad, brothers and sisters that's it! Just because I'm weary and scared. I was worried for dh to tell his dad Bc he has a huge mouth an dh assured me his dad wouldn't tell anyone and Bc I told my fam I allowed it, knowing how disrespectful he can be when it comes to secrets, I felt bad for dh Bc he wanted to trust him. Well not an hour later his sister (dh aunt) calls me to congratulate me!!! I wanted to cry. I was so upset that he said something knowing full well how worried and concerned I was but completely disregarding me Bc he wants to be the person to tell people. I'd like to say he's excited but he does this with the worst of news too, like if you already know someone's dead hes more upset you found out somewhere else rather than someone's dead. I guess I'm just venting but I'm seriously just disgusted and pissed.

Message edited 4/21/2013 10:40:04 PM.

Re: What part of secret don't you get?

Im sorry. You have every right to be pissed. It was not his news to share, especially when you stressed that he shouldn't tell anyone until you gave the OK.

Re: What part of secret don't you get?

I am so sorry.
While I feel that you should always respect the wishes of a pregnant couple and do NOT agree with what he did, was this DH's sister he told or DH's dad sister he told? Just asking cause you were telling brothers and sisters anyway.

Re: What part of secret don't you get?

Ty ladies, I'm just so disappointed in him. It was my father in laws sister, dh aunt. Dh and I are nowhere near close to her, and quite frankly either is my FIL, making it all the more infuriating.

Re: What part of secret don't you get?