spinoff "youre a horrible wife"

it's funny that this post came up bc this came up last night with DH.

As we were going to bed, he was seeming kind of down so I asked what's wrong. He said nothing but I knew better and after me finally getting it out of him, he said he was upset that we hadn't done anything in a while. I'm 8weeks so it's been over a month since the last

He said he understands that Im not feeling great so hasn't tried to initiate anything but I know he's down in the dumps about it and I def feel guilty. Ever since that transvaginal u/s even the thought of sex sounds a bit uncomfortable.

How did you ladies handle it? Did you try to help him in other ways? Or just let him go for a while without any?

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How do I handle this? hmmmmmmm I just jump him occasionally! I try for 1 time a week, but at 32 weeks, I'm down to 2x a month if I'm lucky!!! haha! It is definitely a different experience.

A little TMI, I tried to go for BJ the other night, but that lasted all of 2 seconds, was not comfortable at all! DH told me to try laying down next to him so I didn't have to bend over, I just laughed and jumped on! haha! I guess he really misses the other stuff!

Try it could be a bit till you find a comfortable position, but it is possible!!

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Posted by jennielee15

How do I handle this? hmmmmmmm I just jump him occasionally! I try for 1 time a week, but at 32 weeks, I'm down to 2x a month if I'm lucky!!! haha! It is definitely a different experience.

A little TMI, I tried to go for BJ the other night, but that lasted all of 2 seconds, was not comfortable at all! DH told me to try laying down next to him so I didn't have to bend over, I just laughed and jumped on! haha! I guess he really misses the other stuff!

Try it could be a bit till you find a comfortable position, but it is possible!!

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Posted by lucky1007

Posted by jennielee15

How do I handle this? hmmmmmmm I just jump him occasionally! I try for 1 time a week, but at 32 weeks, I'm down to 2x a month if I'm lucky!!! haha! It is definitely a different experience.

A little TMI, I tried to go for BJ the other night, but that lasted all of 2 seconds, was not comfortable at all! DH told me to try laying down next to him so I didn't have to bend over, I just laughed and jumped on! haha! I guess he really misses the other stuff!

Try it could be a bit till you find a comfortable position, but it is possible!!

hah thanks jennie! I guess I just need to give it a whirl!

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Posted by jennielee15

Posted by lucky1007

Posted by jennielee15

How do I handle this? hmmmmmmm I just jump him occasionally! I try for 1 time a week, but at 32 weeks, I'm down to 2x a month if I'm lucky!!! haha! It is definitely a different experience.

A little TMI, I tried to go for BJ the other night, but that lasted all of 2 seconds, was not comfortable at all! DH told me to try laying down next to him so I didn't have to bend over, I just laughed and jumped on! haha! I guess he really misses the other stuff!

Try it could be a bit till you find a comfortable position, but it is possible!!

hah thanks jennie! I guess I just need to give it a whirl!

Just know that if it's not pleasurable then you don't have to do it!! Men were given external genitalia for a reason! Easier for them to take care of themselves!! haha!

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Dtd has made me pretty much cramp really badly since day 1. Dh gets cranky and we both want it but I tell him his hand has to suffice. I plan to jump him when this is all over.

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While I was so sick the first half of pregnancy, when we did do it, it was awesome! There is something to be said for pregnancy s*x!!! The Os are AMAZING and totally different, for me at least...can't speak for anyone else. I can probably count on one hand how many times we've done it. Don't get me wrong...I would love to but I was so sick and now just getting so uncomfortable I just don't think I can.

My dreams on the other hand are telling me that I need to jump on and have some fun!!!

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Buy him ONE OF THESE

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In the first trimester I did have nausea and exhaustion but that went away - we did have sex during that time because even with the nausea, no appetite, and exhaustion my hormones were making me want it. But it wasn't AS frequent as when that went away - around 11 weeks. Since then, I'm 16 weeks now, we have been like normal. However, I will say that being on top was a little uncomfortable for me recently. So, we just try to switch to something that is more comfortable. I also recommend, and I do this a lot, a good blow job It's usually pretty quick, easy, and painless... for both of us. And he's as happy as a clam so it gets him off my back

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Posted by DaniRella

In the first trimester I did have nausea and exhaustion but that went away - we did have sex during that time because even with the nausea, no appetite, and exhaustion my hormones were making me want it. But it wasn't AS frequent as when that went away - around 11 weeks. Since then, I'm 16 weeks now, we have been like normal. However, I will say that being on top was a little uncomfortable for me recently. So, we just try to switch to something that is more comfortable. I also recommend, and I do this a lot, a good blow job It's usually pretty quick, easy, and painless... for both of us. And he's as happy as a clam so it gets him off my back

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Well you read my post I want to help me out but I'm so uncomfortable and just not in the mood. I can't even muster up energy to try