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mrsanonymous
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So tired of...
people asking when we are going to have a baby. Even before we were struck with IF or could relate to IF in any way I NEVER asked anyone that question. First it is nobody's business in general and second it's not like going and buying a shirt..I don't get to decide 'Hey, I am going to get pregnant today'. UGH!
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Posted 2/27/13 8:25 PM  |
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Lillies
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Re: So tired of...
Yes, SUPER annoying..... My SIL is asking me every other weekend....... 
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| Posted 2/27/13 8:43 PM |
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gina409
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Re: So tired of...
i am sorry! it is so annoying!
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| Posted 2/28/13 12:06 AM |
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APT910
Let It Be
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Re: So tired of...
I feel the same way! Almost all of DH's family and friends have children and they ALWAYS ask when we're going to have children! We had 6 babies born last year between friends and family so the pressure has definitely increased!
I wish it was simpler but hopefully we will have some BFPs soon! 
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| Posted 2/28/13 9:38 AM |
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MrsGoldie
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Re: So tired of...
Me tooooo!!! So annoying!!
I have unfortunately been guilty of asking people that before I started this journey  I will NEVER ask anyone again!!!!
I have my wedding picture on my desk at work and I get asked by patients all the time..."How long have you been married? Any children yet?" "Why not?" "What are you waiting for?" "It's better you wait anyways." "I saw you last year, STILL no babies?" 
I've been really open about all this with my family and close friends, and they have been mostly supportive. With the exception of the occasional "If you stop stressing out it will happen." "Just don't think about it."
Must be the meds bc some days I'm just like whatever and some days I just want to scream obscenities at them 
Hope March is a happy month for us all 
Message edited 2/28/2013 10:22:10 AM.
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| Posted 2/28/13 10:21 AM |
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mrsanonymous
LIF Adolescent
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Re: So tired of...
Posted by MrsGoldie
Must be the meds bc some days I'm just like whatever and some days I just want to scream obscenities at them
LoL ITA! I'm the same way. Sometimes I find myself easily joking it off or ignoring it and other times I want to just ask people if they are really THAT ignorant.
I'm sorry to hear you're all hearing similar comments. I find myself avoiding certain people lately simply because I know it will come up. It's a lousy position to be in but hopfully some day soon we'll all be able to give an answer when we're asked 'when'.
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| Posted 2/28/13 12:51 PM |
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