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After a loss, do you start fearing other people in your life will die?

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NASP09
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After a loss, do you start fearing other people in your life will die?

After I lost my parent Ive started having kind of paranoid worry about losing my child. Losing my parent was bad enough, but I made it through. If I lost my baby I dont think I would make it.

Posted 1/22/13 8:53 PM
 
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luckysmom
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After a loss, do you start fearing other people in your life will die?

I accidentally clicked on this board and normally don't come here but I saw your post title and thought, yep! That's me!! After my mom passed 3 1/2 years ago, I've had this huge fear of other close people in my life Dying. I get very paranoid. I thought It would go away after time, but It hasn't :/. Sorry for your loss!

Posted 1/24/13 10:14 PM
 

ABCiverson
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Re: After a loss, do you start fearing other people in your life will die?

I lost my son almost 8 years ago. Ever since, I fear losing my DH the most. If he is home a tad late I panic a bit. I have nightmares about losing himChat Icon My oldest daughter has T1 diabetes and I am always afraid she will slip away in her sleep. I have constant and sometimes really irrational thoughts about losing them. Hate the fear the loss has brought me. Sorry you are dealing with fears tooChat Icon

Posted 1/28/13 3:02 PM
 

TwinDani
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Re: After a loss, do you start fearing other people in your life will die?

I lost my sister a little over a month ago and I fear either myself or someone else I love will die. I think that is only normal. I am sorry for your loss.

Posted 1/31/13 9:59 AM
 

miabella
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Re: After a loss, do you start fearing other people in your life will die?

i had my baby girl june 20,2011 ....my father died july 21, 2011 exactly one month and a day . It was unexpected and i still break down alot.
When he first passed i was a wreck ...i didnt want my husband to go anywhere without me i was so parinoid to loose him .
I still from time to time find myself in a day dream or sometimes a nap dream and it is me loosing someone in my family it kills me and puts me in a panic ....but i have to push through and live life in the moment for my little girl othersiwse i would be a wreck everyday and would miss many precious moments with her.


SOrry for your loss . :(
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Posted 2/8/13 10:17 PM
 

MrsD24
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Re: After a loss, do you start fearing other people in your life will die?

Yes, my parents passed away in March. I never had a true tragedy in my life before. Now I feel like anything can happened and anyone can leave me. Losing someone changes a lot of things. Chat Icon

Posted 9/8/13 4:08 PM
 

casey31
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Re: After a loss, do you start fearing other people in your life will die?

My mom passed in May- from cancer.

Last week, my dad was diagnosed with stage IV lymphoma.

I'm an only child and I feel like I will have no one left from my family of origin.

I feel now like life is so fleeting- never felt like that before.

Posted 9/23/13 11:41 AM
 
 

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