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Jenny614
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Jen
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Need to vent...please dont quote
Message edited 1/2/2013 8:42:52 PM.
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Posted 1/2/13 11:06 AM  |
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babylove628
mommy of two!
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Maggie
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Need to vent...please dont quote
She needs to grow up! sorry she's such a jerk. Sounds like she thinks you guys are in competition, someone needs to teach her what family is all about. Hang in there!
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| Posted 1/2/13 11:11 AM |
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AngnShaun
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Ang
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Need to vent...please dont quote
i totally get the first part when they were having trouble... but now shes just being a B. And im impressed that your Brother stuck up for you, that he can see the difference between the two situationss
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| Posted 1/2/13 11:15 AM |
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mnm918
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Michele
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Re: Need to vent...please dont quote
wow.. thats pretty immature :( sorry your dealing with that. I would just brush it off and try not to make a big deal of it for now since it seems anything you tell her she will have a comment for. 
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| Posted 1/2/13 11:24 AM |
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Sparrow
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Re: Need to vent...please dont quote
I would go about my business like the convo never happened. You find out the gender when you intended to, not scheduled around her party. Obviously I wouldn't "announce" there but other than that, it's what works for you. I agree, she sounds like a crazy B.
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| Posted 1/2/13 11:35 AM |
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jams92
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Re: Need to vent...please dont quote
wow she sounds crazy. i would just avoid talking to her about the baby in general its not worth the grief and aggravation
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| Posted 1/2/13 11:38 AM |
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missfabulous
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It's sounds like she's more concerned with you and your baby stealing HER thunder (considering a one year doesn't even know the difference!). She's turning it into a competition. I would just shrug it off as jealousy and focus on your pregnancy (as annoying as it is to put up with, she's just being immature).
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| Posted 1/2/13 11:47 AM |
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jennielee15
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Jennie
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Re: Need to vent...please dont quote
This actually makes me laugh!!! It's like she's thinking of wedding or something....we don't plan when we get pregnant or when we find things out regarding gender and stuff! GEESH!!! This is the total opposite of my SIL who called me when she got engaged to make sure it was okay for them to get married the same year as us...didn't want to steal my thunder! I laughed and said, "your kidding right" haha!!
I kinda hoped she would get pregnant near me so we could do this together and our kids could be close in age. I actually have two firends due within a week of me....noone's "thunder" is being stole, so juvenile!!
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| Posted 1/2/13 11:53 AM |
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Jenny614
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Jen
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Re: Need to vent...please dont quote
Thanks all for reassuring me that I am not being insensitive or anything like that. I just truly feel that she is not happy for me. She and I get along really well, but she often gets on my nerves because she is just a spolied brat most of the time. She doesnt work just complains that she cant keep up with the house etc. She's in bed till noon with the baby, so I dont get it. It just pisses me off, but I know that part is none of my business.
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NoStressMom
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Re: Need to vent...please dont quote
I'm sorry but she needs to get a life!! You respected her wishes when you found out and didn't talk about it with her! You are not in the wrong I would try to distance myself alittle bit from her
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| Posted 1/2/13 12:46 PM |
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maybemommy10
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Re: Need to vent...please dont quote
Announce the gender at her daughter bday party.
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| Posted 1/2/13 12:56 PM |
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ANR1211
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I totally get being upset when she couldn't get pregnant, but seriously...now it's just petty. You shouldn't worry. It's amazing that your brother stood up for you!
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jellybean78
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Re: Need to vent...please dont quote
Posted by ANR1211
I totally get being upset when she couldn't get pregnant, but seriously...now it's just petty. You shouldn't worry. It's amazing that your brother stood up for you!
Agree I could understand her being sad upset or whatever the first time you told her you were pregnant. Now she's just being an asss.
ETA: I feel your pain. My SIL is extremely jealous. Her DD and my DD are 6 months apart (her DD being older). She was upset I was having a girl. She wanted her DD to be the only girl grandchild and was scared my DD would steal her thunder. So stupid. The only way to deal with people like that is either ignore them, give them a taste of their own medicine or cut them off. I did the latter.
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Jenny614
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Jen
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Re: Need to vent...please dont quote
Thanks for the moral support ladies:)
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| Posted 1/2/13 8:40 PM |
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