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DD with the same name as FB's friend's DD

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bella321
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DD with the same name as FB's friend's DD

This is such a silly situation but I know you girls can possibly relate Chat Icon

A Facebook "friend" from high school (just an acquaintance from back in the day really, we never hung out) posted a comment that came up in my NewsFeed.

"I can't believe my first cousin named her daughter XX, same as my daughter. Ugh!"

I didn't realize she had a daughter, so I looked in her profile to see the name.

Keep in mind, DH and I are Chat Icon but our DD name is the same as her DD. First and middle name! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Now, I don't really care because, like I said, I never see the girl and her name had absolutely no impact on our choice.

That said, if this baby is a Chat Icon , I'm thinking of un-friending her to avoid a total Facebook war.

Ridiculous, right?Chat Icon

Posted 12/5/12 6:10 PM
 
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LL514
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Re: DD with the same name as FB's friend's DD

it's ridiculous that i totally understand how you feel lol. a little weird but whatever, just delete her if you dont want to feel weird about it.

Posted 12/5/12 6:28 PM
 

Sparrow
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Re: DD with the same name as FB's friend's DD

If she's no one of any significance, I'd unfriend her. I wouldn't want her thinking I "stole" her name (although you clearly didn't). She sounds like she's obviously sensitive about this.

Posted 12/5/12 7:14 PM
 

ANR1211
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DD with the same name as FB's friend's DD

I would delete her too because I hate when people claim a name just because they picked it first! Maybe she's just annoyed because it's family. I think it's kind of weird to pick names that are very similar or the same within a family, but I would never hesitate to pick a name similar to a friend!

Posted 12/5/12 7:55 PM
 

JME78
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Re: DD with the same name as FB's friend's DD

If she's not your true friend, don't even worry about what she might think.

Posted 12/5/12 8:29 PM
 

Me43
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Re: DD with the same name as FB's friend's DD

Not ridiculous... my thought process would be similar...I would worry she would put a similar comment up about me and I would see it in the newsfeed...A lot of people do not realize just how much shows up in that newsfeed

Posted 12/5/12 8:48 PM
 

Strawberry2468
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Re: DD with the same name as FB's friend's DD

Who cares! I can see her having an issue with a cousin doing it but not just a FB friend. My DD has the same name as a FB friend who I know from here. We were pregnant at the same time and both discussed liking the name.

Posted 12/5/12 10:00 PM
 

bella321
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Re: DD with the same name as FB's friend's DD

Thanks everyone!

Posted 12/5/12 10:39 PM
 

moonmist09
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DD with the same name as FB's friend's DD

i wouldn't let her opinions bother me in the least

Posted 12/6/12 10:03 AM
 

NYCGirl80
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Re: DD with the same name as FB's friend's DD

I wouldn't care. And I don't care - since I'm in a similar situation.

DH and I chose a name for our Chat Icon a while ago. Then, I came across a couple I went to college with who have already named their son the same first and middle names. To me, I don't care. I don't associate with these people so it shouldn't matter.

If I were very close with them, I'd rethink our name choice.

Posted 12/6/12 10:36 AM
 

jennielee15
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Re: DD with the same name as FB's friend's DD

One of DH's best friends named his son Nicholas and I have always planned on that name...I'm using it anyways!!!

ETA: Soince this is just an acquantance, I would either ignore the whole situation or i would send her a message, I just saw your daughters name! So funny thats that name we chose too!! Great minds think alike!

Message edited 12/6/2012 2:16:10 PM.

Posted 12/6/12 2:13 PM
 

sj-girl
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Re: DD with the same name as FB's friend's DD

Posted by Strawberry2468

Who cares! I can see her having an issue with a cousin doing it but not just a FB friend. My DD has the same name as a FB friend who I know from here. We were pregnant at the same time and both discussed liking the name.



That must be me Chat Icon

I feel the same way as others. Its not like its a name of a first cousin or a really good friends child. If its a Chat Icon and she says something tell her to beat it. She doesnt own that name.

Posted 12/6/12 3:06 PM
 

mlny
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Re: DD with the same name as FB's friend's DD

I would unfriend her. I stress out hardcore about other people and it is something I wouldn't even want to deal with.

Posted 12/6/12 10:28 PM
 
 

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