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InShock
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Re: Npr:Am I being hormonal or would you feel the same way?
The chain smoking would be the deal breaker for me. Since he has other places he can stay, I'd somehow make sure he stayed there!
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ModDot
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Npr:Am I being hormonal or would you feel the same way?
No, absolutely not. I had a friend come visit and she had no plans. I had to work, she stayed on our couch in a complete funk for a WEEK. Didn't do dishes, made a mess and my DH and I work full time. It was like having a grumpy child who just made mess after mess. The next time she visited she was not allowed to stay with us. It was too stressful, and yes she was going through a hard time then but I am far too busy to be a grown adults babysitter.
So NO to your FIL
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WinterBaby13
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Npr:Am I being hormonal or would you feel the same way?
Oh good lord if he's not sure how long he's staying I would not be ok with it. Give him a time frame and tell DH he's going to have to take some time off so you're not by yourself. The smell of cigarette smoke makes me nuts so that would be a whole other issue... I would push for him to stay elsewhere.
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Re: Npr:Am I being hormonal or would you feel the same way?
Posted by WinterBaby13
Oh good lord if he's not sure how long he's staying I would not be ok with it. Give him a time frame and tell DH he's going to have to take some time off so you're not by yourself. The smell of cigarette smoke makes me nuts so that would be a whole other issue... I would push for him to stay elsewhere.
Unfortunatel, Dh can't take off. He had to use unexpected time when he hurt his ankle and he wants to save his time for when dc#2 comes to help me (his time carries over).
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LiveItUp
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Npr:Am I being hormonal or would you feel the same way?
I would not be comfortable with it especially since he has no date set to leave.
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cateyemm
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Re: Npr:Am I being hormonal or would you feel the same way?
no. way.
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mommyof3girls
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Re: Npr:Am I being hormonal or would you feel the same way?
Posted by LiveItUp
I would not be comfortable with it especially since he has no date set to leave.
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JDubs
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Re: Npr:Am I being hormonal or would you feel the same way?
def not! there is no way i would have him stay there.... esp while chain smoking and possibly staying for 2 years!!
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wo0shply
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Re: Npr:Am I being hormonal or would you feel the same way?
can you get him a hotel room for a week or something?
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Re: Npr:Am I being hormonal or would you feel the same way?
no way. and the smoking would be the majority of my reasoning. with an infant that is not ok.
how long did DH want/expect him to stay? I would rather spend $ to put him up at a hotel for one week and say we got you this room until such and such date. And when that date comes- if he wants to stay longer, well he needs to pay to extend his stay at the hotel or find other arrangements on his own.
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CarolAnn721
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Re: Npr:Am I being hormonal or would you feel the same way?
I would let him stay for like a weekend or 5 dayss and than hopefully he can go to your MIL or SILs house after... No matter what, it is your DHs father... i would try to bend a little
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MarisaK
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Re: Npr:Am I being hormonal or would you feel the same way?
You are not being hormonal - I'm not PG right now 
Open your mouth and say something NOW before it's too late. I'm serious, say it NOW
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nancy6485
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Re: Npr:Am I being hormonal or would you feel the same way?
Posted by CarolAnn721
I would let him stay for like a weekend or 5 dayss and than hopefully he can go to your MIL or SILs house after... No matter what, it is your DHs father... i would try to bend a little
this!! i wouldnt be able to turn away family, set a 'limit'
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MrsRapz
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Npr:Am I being hormonal or would you feel the same way?
oh hells no! two years?! not happening, buddy!!
he can stay with MIL or SIL or anybody else.
If he has a return ticket and i knew exactly how long he'd be staying for, then i'd consider letting him stay.
one question though ... if your DH and FIL aren't close, why is he coming to visit? Sounds like he's just making everybody's life more difficult by coming. If nobody asked him to come, then he should be able to figure out his own "hotel" situation.
ok, i'm super hormonal today so that last paragraph should prob be ignored 
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Re: Npr:Am I being hormonal or would you feel the same way?
Posted by MrsRapz
oh hells no! two years?! not happening, buddy!!
he can stay with MIL or SIL or anybody else.
If he has a return ticket and i knew exactly how long he'd be staying for, then i'd consider letting him stay.
one question though ... if your DH and FIL aren't close, why is he coming to visit? Sounds like he's just making everybody's life more difficult by coming. If nobody asked him to come, then he should be able to figure out his own "hotel" situation.
ok, i'm super hormonal today so that last paragraph should prob be ignored
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Re: Npr:Am I being hormonal or would you feel the same way?
Posted by CarolAnn721
I would let him stay for like a weekend or 5 dayss and than hopefully he can go to your MIL or SILs house after... No matter what, it is your DHs father... i would try to bend a little
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