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stargazerlily
LIF Adolescent
Member since 12/11 706 total posts
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Lara
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I'm gonna do it
This is going to be my first official vent post. I just can't shake this feeling that life is not fair at the moment. I have been coping with the BFNs by always moving to the next thing but this little bump in the road has thrown off my momentum. I suddenly realized that while it's so easy for everyone else around me, here I am 16 months later with no BFP to speak of. My friend even adopted in less time. And i know thats not even half of what some of you have been through. On top of that there is such drama in DHs family and I don't want any part of it. I don't do drama and these people seem to thrive on it 
Uh how do you deal with the tough days? Vent over. Thanks for listening
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TyReseGreen
Lil Prince is here
Member since 8/11 6338 total posts
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Theresa
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Re: I'm gonna do it
DH and I are going through secondary IF and it's been difficult I must say. The frustrating part is when we were going to start our second fresh cycle earlier this month it was postponed (new RE didn't receive my records from old RE). Then we were going to start once AF arrives at the end of the month. Now delayed since DH will be in Boston (work related) for 2 weeks around the time of the transfer so now I have to wait for July AF. I keep praying and hoping that BFP will come soon and my gut tells me it will!
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| Posted 6/15/12 12:02 PM |
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JulieLO
LIF Adolescent
Member since 12/11 669 total posts
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Re: I'm gonna do it
Vent away girl!!! It just sucks when you feel like this. THERE IS HOPE AND A LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL.
I understand where your coming from I had BFN's every month from 2007-2009, miscarried at 4 months and then again BFN's every month after that...
33 BFN's!! over 4 years...I was FINALLY blessed with my DS...
Just talk it out, some days are worse then others but you will get through it, we all do!! Once you get that BFP you will look back and it will feel like time passed so quickly...its when your going through it ---it drags ass!!!
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| Posted 6/15/12 12:14 PM |
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JulieLO
LIF Adolescent
Member since 12/11 669 total posts
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Re: I'm gonna do it
Posted by TyReseGreen
DH and I are going through secondary IF and it's been difficult I must say. The frustrating part is when we were going to start our second fresh cycle earlier this month it was postponed (new RE didn't receive my records from old RE). Then we were going to start once AF arrives at the end of the month. Now delayed since DH will be in Boston (work related) for 2 weeks around the time of the transfer so now I have to wait for July AF. I keep praying and hoping that BFP will come soon and my gut tells me it will!
It will!!!!! TIS' THE SEASON!!!! xoxoxox
IM PRAYING FOR YOU BOTH!!!!!
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| Posted 6/15/12 12:15 PM |
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WannaBeAMom11
LIF Adult
Member since 1/11 7391 total posts
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Re: I'm gonna do it
I feel you. I'm on month 17. Sometimes im numb to it other times I'm devastated. It's been worse lately bc everyone I know sneezes and gets pg.
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| Posted 6/15/12 12:40 PM |
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01ellie
LIF Adult
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Re: I'm gonna do it
IF is tough to go thru! and i know how you feel about it seems like everyone else is having an easier time..i felt that way. If it wasnt for this board i think i would have had a break down. venting on here and reading that i'm not alone made me feel alot better.
my advice would be...give yourself time to be angry, sad, etc. its all normal and part of the process but after you give it some time start focusing on the next cycle and keep hope that your time will come.
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| Posted 6/15/12 1:36 PM |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
Member since 1/10 21015 total posts
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Ang
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Re: I'm gonna do it
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Re: I'm gonna do it
I have my days too...its healthy. LET IT OUT!
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| Posted 6/15/12 4:37 PM |
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
Member since 7/08 19084 total posts
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Jib
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Re: I'm gonna do it
I don't even have an answer to how I cope... I honestly don't even know anymore... I've come so close yet so far over the years that I'm just convinced this is never going to happen and if it does I'll be SHOCKED. 
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| Posted 6/15/12 5:04 PM |
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gina409
TWINS!
Member since 12/09 27635 total posts
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Re: I'm gonna do it
Posted by 01ellie
IF is tough to go thru! and i know how you feel about it seems like everyone else is having an easier time..i felt that way. If it wasnt for this board i think i would have had a break down. venting on here and reading that i'm not alone made me feel alot better.
my advice would be...give yourself time to be angry, sad, etc. its all normal and part of the process but after you give it some time start focusing on the next cycle and keep hope that your time will come.
ita...it was the worst time of my life and u need to vent and cry to get through it
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