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shazza211
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Sharon
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I am trying hard to be positive*update*
But I am so nervous. Yesterday I got to faint BFP one on an e.p.t with FMU and one on a FRER with 2ndMU at 9dp3dt. I tested again this morning with FMU on an e.p.t and the + looked even fainter in the first 10 minutes then yesterday. Granted I tested at 5am and had only held my urine for about 5.5 hours compared to the day before where I had held it for 7 hours. After the 10 minutes the vertical line was certainly there and blue but only half way up the test...still darker then yesterday's but I started to worry that this could be an evaporation line. So of course, after panic set in, DH went out and bought more FRER and after POAS early this afternoon I have a very very faint line. Now I don't know what to think...I had a chemical back in November and a MC last March. I am just so terrified to go through the loss again though I know it is always a possibilty. Also, DH got his SA results from the specialist today who said that his morphology is at 4% and normal is 20% and that is the likely reason for the last two losses. He said if we weren't already doing IVF he would suggest surgery to correct his issue. Now I am worried is this BFP going to not progress...I am  non-stop and would appreciate any advice or support you ladies can give me on this. BETA is not until Monday and then I'll be 16dp3dt. I also am on edge b/c I have a family baby shower this Sunday and it will be filled with other PG family members
I tested again this morining using the FRER and EPT with FMU and BFN I think this is another chemical. My symptoms are lessing too. I am going to call RE today and see if they'll let me come in tomorrow for BETA instead of Monday. I'll be back at work on Monday and I'd rather have the weekend to get over the news than at work on Monday. This whole process is torture
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wantabuninoven
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Re: I am trying hard to be positive
Try and stay positive!
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shazza211
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Re: I am trying hard to be positive
Posted by wantabuninoven
Try and stay positive! When is your blood test?
Monday...I'll be 16dp3dt
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wantabuninoven
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Re: I am trying hard to be positive
Try and relax until then. 
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WannaBeAMom11
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Re: I am trying hard to be positive
PrayIng for you. When is your blood test?
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| Posted 4/11/12 5:22 PM |
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Wishes1111
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Re: I am trying hard to be positive
for you and hope this BFP sticks. Just fyi DH's urologist and our RE, told us, low morph has no effect on the viability of a pregnancy usually the problem is that the sperm never makes it to fertilizing the egg -- if it happens then it has the chances of being as successful as any other pregnancy. I'm not sure why you were given different info but I hope this eases your mind. Good luck
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NYCGirl80
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Re: I am trying hard to be positive
Posted by Wishes1111
for you and hope this BFP sticks. Just fyi DH's urologist and our RE, told us, low morph has no effect on the viability of a pregnancy usually the problem is that the sperm never makes it to fertilizing the egg -- if it happens then it has the chances of being as successful as any other pregnancy. I'm not sure why you were given different info but I hope this eases your mind. Good luck
I'm not sure this is entirely true. Our IVF failed b/c DH's sperm wasn't high enough quality/mature enough. Our embryos stopped developing. However, in this case, I don't think they would even implant if there was a sperm issue. Sperm DNA kicks in on day 4 of fertilization.
I think you should wait another day (or 2, if possible) and POS. If it comes up + then, I think you're safe. Can you see if they'll do a beta at 14 days?
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frio85
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Re: I am trying hard to be positive
Sending you some good thoughts..... 
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Re: I am trying hard to be positive
Sending you good thoughts!!!!
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prunepie
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Re: I am trying hard to be positive
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gina409
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Re: I am trying hard to be positive
can u request a earlier beta?
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| Posted 4/11/12 10:41 PM |
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Kris828
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Re: I am trying hard to be positive
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ODonnell
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Re: I am trying hard to be positive
I never got a really dark line on my tests and my first beta at just 8 dp 2 dt was 80. Don't stress but could you ask your RE for an earlier beta for your own peace of mind?
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TyReseGreen
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Re: I am trying hard to be positive
Try to stay positive. I know you have several days until Beta but I wouldn't POAS at this point anymore because it would only drive you crazy. I must have spend $300 in pregnancy tests my last 3 IVF cycles trying to figure out if it was a faint line or was I just seeing stuff. I had to promise DH I won't POAS this cycle once he came across the receipts.
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AngnShaun
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Re: I am trying hard to be positive*update*
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ThePinkGoose
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Re: I am trying hard to be positive*update*
Thinking of you and praying for you.
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moonmist09
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Re: I am trying hard to be positive*update*
i am sending lots of your way that this is not another chemical for you.
However, my RE did let me know that the morphology number being standard at 20% was the old number and that the new numbers place the morphology at being normal at 4%
Either way, if you actually got pregnant, morphology won't affect your chances of staying pregnant, you have just as much of a chance as any other pregnancy
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FlowerWife
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Re: I am trying hard to be positive*update*
def see if you can go in for a beta today and saturday to see whats going on!!
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shazza211
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Re: I am trying hard to be positive*update*
Posted by FlowerWife
def see if you can go in for a beta today and saturday to see whats going on!!
Going for my Beta tomorrow at 6:30
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wantabuninoven
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Re: I am trying hard to be positive*update*
been thinking about you
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shazza211
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Re: I am trying hard to be positive*update*
Thanks girls for all the positive thoughts. In the past week I have had two friends have very ill family in the hospital and both are doing better now so I know the power of prayer and positive thoughts works wonders. I will know more tomorrow after the Beta
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01ellie
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Re: I am trying hard to be positive*update*
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gina409
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Re: I am trying hard to be positive*update*
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LoLaBlue
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