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cds58019
The loves of my life :)

Member since 6/08 4276 total posts
Name: Candice
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A personal question about having sex when you're pregnant
How "involved" are you when you're actually having sex during you pregnancy? At 29 weeks I feel like all I can do is lay there. Any position that involves me physcially participating is too much on my stomach muscles and I end up with a very tight and achy stomach afterwards. I feel bad literally just laying there, although I still enjoy myself, but it's all I can manage at this point. I know DH doesn't mind but it still bothers me.
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Posted 3/18/12 12:06 AM |
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Arieschick29
aries+cancer= pisces&gemini

Member since 3/06 4268 total posts
Name: Jen
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Re: A personal question about having sex when you're pregnant
I try to balance being "active" vs lying there... I usually tire out on top so we end up in a missionary or side position. I make sure DH is "warmed up" and ready to go so he gets some attention kwim?
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Posted 3/18/12 3:56 AM |
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mnmsoinlove
Mommy to 2 sweet girls!

Member since 3/09 8585 total posts
Name: Melissa
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Re: A personal question about having sex when you're pregnant
29 weeks here and I am still trying to put in some effort but I'm pretty uncomfortable. I just try to particpate as much as I can he understands when I'm exhausted though and he just does his thing
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Posted 3/18/12 8:32 AM |
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butterfly20
Party of 5 - 2015

Member since 4/06 7390 total posts
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Re: A personal question about having sex when you're pregnant
considering I didn't even do it last pregnancy, dh is happy with my just lying there
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Posted 3/18/12 3:55 PM |
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labonnevie
sometimes 1+1= 4 <3
Member since 8/09 3869 total posts
Name: the lucky one
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Re: A personal question about having sex when you're pregnant
Posted by butterfly20
considering I didn't even do it last pregnancy, dh is happy with my just lying there
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Posted 3/19/12 1:49 PM |
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Loveme
LIF Adult

Member since 6/11 3170 total posts
Name: Me
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Re: A personal question about having sex when you're pregnant
I can't even remember the last tme we had sex. But when we were doing it, I was just lying there Not to mention I was dry as sandpaper
, not fun times at all!
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Posted 3/19/12 2:04 PM |
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Megan1129
LIF Adolescent

Member since 3/09 515 total posts
Name: Megan
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Re: A personal question about having sex when you're pregnant
Posted by Loveme
I can't even remember the last tme we had sex. But when we were doing it, I was just lying there Not to mention I was dry as sandpaper
, not fun times at all!
My response word for word!
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Posted 3/19/12 2:30 PM |
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MaZz
* Lovin my baby girl!!! *

Member since 2/09 6243 total posts
Name: Gina
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Re: A personal question about having sex when you're pregnant
Whats sex again 
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Posted 3/19/12 2:32 PM |
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IAMMRSBROWN
3 under 2!!!

Member since 10/10 2476 total posts
Name: Carey
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Re: A personal question about having sex when you're pregnant
Im only in my first trimester but I cannot get enough
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Posted 3/19/12 2:34 PM |
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MST9106
My life:)

Member since 6/06 9589 total posts
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Re: A personal question about having sex when you're pregnant
Ugh I try very hard to stay involved but I just can't. I don't enjoy any form of sexual activity other than pleasing my husband. EVERYTHING feels different...sort of like numb, its very hard for me to achieve the big O and I would be perfectly happy if I didn't have to do it for the rest of my pregnancy I can't just lay there either, I just can't.
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Posted 3/19/12 2:35 PM |
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ArmyOfBabies
Growing older but not up

Member since 7/07 4427 total posts
Name: Jeri
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Re: A personal question about having sex when you're pregnant
Posted by IAMMRSBROWN
Im only in my first trimester but I cannot get enough
Same boat!
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Posted 3/19/12 2:36 PM |
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